i am 14 and i had sex when i was 9
i also have white gooey stuff comming out and when i use the bathroom it just hanged there it doesnt smell bad but i had it for a while and i only had my period for a few months. do they have anything to do with each other? i just hate that when i shower every mourning and throu out the day when i come home from school its there. i clean my self and im still a vergin so what is it????
Hi honey! There are a LOT of posts about this right now, it's strange that so many people are experiencing this. Regardless IF you didn't have discharge I would be worried. You are still young so your hormones are ALL over the place. This is what the white mucus is - it is from your hormones. The only time to worry about it is if it is strange color (grey, green, yellow, red) and smells - this can be a sign of a yeast infection. If it's just white and stringy, don't worry about it, change your panty liner as often as needed, drink water instead of pops etc. Also you can't get pregnant from fingering, but you CAN with any non protected penetration. No matter if you are told that "under 5 minutes you can't get pregnant", "I'm dry, so you can't get pregnant", "You can't get pregnant after your period", "My friends sister has sex ALL the time and she doesn't get pregnant..." i've heard it ALL honey, and EVERY excuse someone has used to make their girlfriend have unprotected sex, that girl ended up pregnant! You obviously know about ovulation, but what you might not know is that ovulation can actually happen at ANYTIME, it depends on illness, pills, stress, hormones etc. Please know that this is YOUR body, IF he doesn't have protection then there is ZERO sex. Also know this honey, you are 14, I know hormones are raging, but 14 is VERY VERY young to be having sex. Don't for 1 second think that other girls your age are having sex - they aren't! The average age of loosing virginity is 17 1/2. Also there are MANY laws in place to protect "children" - I know you don't view yourself as a child but in the eyes of the law you are. So your boyfriend could be done with statutory rape - I'm serious! Giving up your virginity is a HUGE deal, one of the biggest. It's also a gift you can NEVER take back. I know you love your boyfriend, and some young relationships can last forever, but those are VERY few honey. So don't loose your virginity to someone that might not be your boyfriend this time next year! Think about the future relationships, where a young man could be quite shocked that you have ALREADY lost your virginity? Also, say you give your virginity up, then you break up - BADLY - you will quickly be known as the ex who is no longer a virgin! There are THOUSANDS of young girls - around the world - at this very moment, who are sick to their stomachs that they are now known for having sex. It's AWFUL - in this day and age, or texting, FB, Myspace, Twitter etc etc etc. One sentence could ruin your life. So tell him what my 83 year old grandma told me to tell my boyfriend "Take job in hand" ;-) It's YOUR body, YOUR call - ALWAYS OK? Big hugs honey!
No it is normal it happened to me no your not pregant it is just discharge but if its smelly you have a infectoin its ok its is normal you cloud have a yeat infecttoin but dont worry it its normal it will be fine dont worry but do MAKE sure you dont do anything stuid with your bf ok . Goodluck
She's asking for people who understand/ have or are going through what she is with the vaginal discharge, not for you to make her feel like c**p. It was her choice, leave it at that. Just because she's had sex, does not make her any less then you who choose to be a virgin. It's HER body. As long as she's safe and taking care of herself then she's doing nothing wrong. Doesn't make a person "easy" just cause they've had sex. It also doesn't mean she doesn't respect herself. Her post shows she DOES respect herself and her body to want to be sure that nothing is wrong with her due to her slight sexual experience.
Second, your "waiting" for that guy who will make an "eternal commitment" to you. Guess what hunny, in today's society their more divorces then marriages that last. So if your husband divorces you, would that make you easy? cause that's your logic. Get your idiocy under control, before you post such a rude comment to someone who's freaking out about her health. Go visit the wizard and ask for a heart :/
Well it happens to e too. I have had my periodfor about a year. I think its normal. It happens o me every time i am off my period.
Well if your only 11 ask your mom to get those panty liner things. I had to do that
You had sex hen you were 9???
i have the same thing but i have had it for about 4 years now and im to scared/shy to go to the doctor if i leave it abit will it go? And it is really embarrasing.
im 16 and nearly 17 and havent had sex yet,ive come to it and stopped myself from doing it because it felt wrong because I feel im too young to be doing this stuff,please wait until your older like i have,youll feel stronger towards the person you will fall in love with when you find the 'one'. Also make sure your boyfriend has clean hands when he touches your bits as its abit..dirty x
also the white gooey liquid is just vaginal discharge,nothing to worry about every girl gets it :)