im 17 years old and know exactly what you mean, i first noticed it when i was about 13 years old its its just become more of an issue ever since. i am so self concious because of it and feel so ashamed! i makes me feels dirty everytime i have to tuck it in or look at myself in the mirror but im too scared to go to the doctors about it! HELP?:-) when it comes to any sexual activities i have to hold it away and point blank refuse to move my hand just for the fact i hate it been there and dont want him to think im dirty. its not like im smelly or have poor hygine or anything cause im a very clean person. i havent told noone about it, not even my mum as i think she will think im weird or abnormal. its gone on for long enough and i just want help :-):$
Hi honey! 1st of all it is TOTALLY UTTERLY normal to have one bigger than the other! Put your hands together, see how one is bigger than the other? Same with breasts, testicles, feet, eyes, ears etc. All varying degrees of course! It's just how we are made! Just like breasts EVERY woman has different labia! This is who you are - there is NOTHING wrong with you in the slightest! I hope you come to that realization yourself, if not Google Images - Labia - it is amazing just how many different types there are! I suppose it makes just as much sense as any other part of our bodies - it's individual! IF you can't get passed this - I also want you to wait till about 20 (as you are still in puberty) then there is a quick procedure called a "Labiaplasty" Where they reduce the size. Your boyfriend will more than likely like larger labia over small ones! I hope this helps you know that there is NOTHING WRONG, you are NOT WEIRD OR ABNORMAL! You are TOTALLY NORMAL! Hope this helps! If you have any further questions just ask away OK?
i have the SAME problem ! mines doesn't aggravate me or anything but it just pisses me off ! I'm 15 but i'm not sexually active anyways .
Everything sorts itself out by the time you have finished puberty! Sometimes they remain uneven, others it corrects! It's EXACTLY the same as every other thing on our body's! One side is bigger than the other! Everyone of us is different, don't ever go by someone from a video or a magazine etc. a lot of these women have had labiaplasty! Just always know that you are whom you are - and it's irrelevant if something - you hardley ever see - is larger!
Im 14 and a virgin. My left labia is longer than my right I was sooo worried about it. I thought I had to cut it off. ew.
I'm 14 and my left is 4cm compared to 1cm for the right one. I used to 'play' with it when I was really little and it just got stretched. A lot. Is there any way I can fix it or will I have to get surgery one day? I really don't want to get surgery, especially down there, but it bugs me so much and makes me feel really uncomfortable. Also, isn't it just skin? I mean, it won't exactly be dangerous will it? :-)
I AM FLOORED! You're 13 and at the PEAK OF YOUR SEX LIFE????? 13 in high school? What???? Man o man...young lady, if I were standing in front of you right now, I would slap your face 3 times(with love in my heart)...once for having sex at 13, once for thinking you're at the peak of your sex life, and one good one cause you obviously need it for being so immature and stupid thinking you know something about sex. The fact that you typed that proves that point. I wish I was your mama. Oh God honey....its too much too soon. I feel like I could cry after reading that. Am I the only one that read that here????? I kept scrolling down waiting for a comment about it.....so this is normal now huh? So so so so so sad. Truly breaks my heart:(... Its a mistake sleeping around. It will follow you ALL through your days in school. You think people wont know, that they are not talking about it...but everyone will know and they will talk and call you a s*** and a w**** behind your back. I was your age once. We (the non-s**ts)all knew the easy girls in school cause guys CANT keep their mouth shut. Ever. No one respected them and no one wanted them except for one thing cause they know your giving it out. The non-sexual girl in school were the ones that were popular and the ones that got the hottest guys as steady "boyfriends". Your body, your vagina, your mouth, these are sacred jewels that you give to only the best guy, when you are mature enough to handle it. They are sooooo personal girls. You can't just let any guy stick their penis in those spaces. Girls, that is one of the most powerful, special gifts God gave us. Its a powerful weapon so you don't give it away for free. Our mouths and vaginas are wonderful. Don't give that gift to someone who will remember you as that girl he lost his virginity to at "13". I promise. Please respect yourself more than that. They'll just respect you more too. I'm 43 and making out is still one of my favorite things. Antisipating... I loooove it! And believe it or not, men still love to do too. A LOT. Please wait a few more years.[insert BIG sigh].......I wish you the best honey...:/ P.S. Mine butterfly is getting longer! LOL. And that's why I stumbled upon this site. They were not always longer so I was worried. I think we worry way too much! I have never been with a man that didn't love mine. Your boobs don't matter either....Men just love em all. I pinkie swear;)