Greetings.
I'm a 27 year old engineer. I'm usually very quiet and reserved, hence my decision to abstain until marriage.
I come from a strong family and i do not wish them to be disgraced, harmed or embarssed in any way.
I have read numerous forum threads regarding this, but this forum seems to be the most competent, so I'll ask away.
I know you guys and gals must get this a lot, so here goes:
I've been seeing this girl. Nice girl. Good family background, also waiting to abstain until marriage. 2 weeks ago, we were watching a movie at her apartment, and we started kissing. Our kissing got a little out of hand, and as you can imagine, passion was flying. I did touch my genitals, but didn't seem to note any pre - ejaculate (as you might say... PRE CUM). I then proceeded to rub her vagina (as, well, her hymen was still intact, and she wanted to keep it that way). We kinda stopped after a few minutes and we both felt very guilty about it. I didn't ejaculate, neither did she orgasm, although i noted a few secretions on my fingers after we stopped. A few hours later, after i had left her apartment, she told me that she had gotten her period and was wondering why she didn't have any PMS signs.
If you must ask, no I didn't masterbate for several weeks prior to that event (a guy's busy... can't exactly do things like that as much as high school, hehe).
Can anyone please tell me if she is at risk for pregnancy or is going to be pregnant, assuming i got a small amount of pre-ejaculate on my fingers?
Thank you for taking the time to read this thread...I anxiously wait for your expert opinions.
I'm a 27 year old engineer. I'm usually very quiet and reserved, hence my decision to abstain until marriage.
I come from a strong family and i do not wish them to be disgraced, harmed or embarssed in any way.
I have read numerous forum threads regarding this, but this forum seems to be the most competent, so I'll ask away.
I know you guys and gals must get this a lot, so here goes:
I've been seeing this girl. Nice girl. Good family background, also waiting to abstain until marriage. 2 weeks ago, we were watching a movie at her apartment, and we started kissing. Our kissing got a little out of hand, and as you can imagine, passion was flying. I did touch my genitals, but didn't seem to note any pre - ejaculate (as you might say... PRE CUM). I then proceeded to rub her vagina (as, well, her hymen was still intact, and she wanted to keep it that way). We kinda stopped after a few minutes and we both felt very guilty about it. I didn't ejaculate, neither did she orgasm, although i noted a few secretions on my fingers after we stopped. A few hours later, after i had left her apartment, she told me that she had gotten her period and was wondering why she didn't have any PMS signs.
If you must ask, no I didn't masterbate for several weeks prior to that event (a guy's busy... can't exactly do things like that as much as high school, hehe).
Can anyone please tell me if she is at risk for pregnancy or is going to be pregnant, assuming i got a small amount of pre-ejaculate on my fingers?
Thank you for taking the time to read this thread...I anxiously wait for your expert opinions.
i would say no. expecially since her period came on right afterwards she was not ovulating during that time even if pre cum got inside her but i doubt it did so no
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I can say with 99.9999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999% certiantly that she is not pregnate. pre-ejaculate, is made from the bulbourethra (cowper's) gland and that is located infront of any semen/sperm producing glands. yea pre-ejaculate can contain sperm but that is normally due to someone ejaculating and then not urinating agterward and then they get excited and produce pre-ejaculate and that flushes the remaining semen from the urethra out.
I can say with 99.9999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999% certiantly that she is not pregnate. pre-ejaculate, is made from the bulbourethra (cowper's) gland and that is located infront of any semen/sperm producing glands. yea pre-ejaculate can contain sperm but that is normally due to someone ejaculating and then not urinating agterward and then they get excited and produce pre-ejaculate and that flushes the remaining semen from the urethra out.
thanks guys.
Plus, i believe one of my medical friends told me that since i did it the morning of her period's first day (day 1), there's practically nothing to fertilize. Is he b.s.ing me? or is this right?
Plus, i believe one of my medical friends told me that since i did it the morning of her period's first day (day 1), there's practically nothing to fertilize. Is he b.s.ing me? or is this right?
well hes not totally B.S.ig you normally ovulation does not occur then so thee would be nothing to fertalize. especially since if she starts bleeding then that means that the eg did not implant and the lining of her uterus is shedding so the cycle can start over. with that said women ovulate at different times so for some it is still possible to have an egg present ready to fertalize but this is rare.
true...
I also asked him if it was possible that "she was ovulating at the time of her period". He just kinda looked at me, composed himself (this guy, is, after all, doctor) and said... "Well. You're an asian (I'm vietnamese) and so is she. That kinda thing occurs as the result of a genetic mutation involving a woman's ovaries that enables her to either release 2 eggs or for one to not be inhibited by the other." He also said that in his entire year of field work, only 1 woman has demonstrated that, and it was a news spectacle. So yes... Hehe.
I guess i am worrying about nothing, right?
I also asked him if it was possible that "she was ovulating at the time of her period". He just kinda looked at me, composed himself (this guy, is, after all, doctor) and said... "Well. You're an asian (I'm vietnamese) and so is she. That kinda thing occurs as the result of a genetic mutation involving a woman's ovaries that enables her to either release 2 eggs or for one to not be inhibited by the other." He also said that in his entire year of field work, only 1 woman has demonstrated that, and it was a news spectacle. So yes... Hehe.
I guess i am worrying about nothing, right?
YEA YOUR WORRIED ABOUT NOTHING HUN!! HOPE THIS HELPS!!!
yup you are worrying about nothing... cheer up and have fun, stop worrying about nothing haha good luck let us know if you have any other questions or concerns. 8)
Thanks. As you can imagine, that's the closest thing i've had to a sexual experience. Yeah. Strange, considering today's cultural norms. Hehe.
I've abstained ever since. She's the first girl i've kissed, and now I'm worried about this. Since you guys have basically told me straight in my face that there's a 0% chance she's pregnant, well, I guess i can get on with my life now. Hehe. Anything else?
I've abstained ever since. She's the first girl i've kissed, and now I'm worried about this. Since you guys have basically told me straight in my face that there's a 0% chance she's pregnant, well, I guess i can get on with my life now. Hehe. Anything else?
nope i think thats all... if you have ever have any more questions or concerns just ask 8)
Do you mean girl won't going to be pregnant around several days of period without any contraception?