Wearing diapers is a hard adjustment to make and with the issues it caused not worth putting him back in them even it does get worse.
He has your support and understanding and that's all he needs.
Like you said a gentle reminder to pee before bed and suggesting he goes again before he is ready to sleep may help.
With having dry nights for awhile he might just have the occasional accident every now and then wouldn't be concerned about it.
If he is ok talking about it maybe just some reassurance that it's not his fault and that sometimes accidents will happen until he grows out of it completely that may help him feel better if he does have a wet night.
It has been an eventful few days for you sounds like you are handling everything perfectly.
He has your support and understanding and that's all he needs.
Like you said a gentle reminder to pee before bed and suggesting he goes again before he is ready to sleep may help.
With having dry nights for awhile he might just have the occasional accident every now and then wouldn't be concerned about it.
If he is ok talking about it maybe just some reassurance that it's not his fault and that sometimes accidents will happen until he grows out of it completely that may help him feel better if he does have a wet night.
It has been an eventful few days for you sounds like you are handling everything perfectly.
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Is it normal for boys to have the boy “accidents” (not pee) during the day? He did say it becomes super super sensitive ( his words “ super super”) when he has erection. I guess the glans become uncovered. He asked for darker (blue) khakis for school because of the two accidents. I didn’t realize boys make enough to stain the pants at his age and size.
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He could be finding that when he has an erection the head is exposed so any kind of movement or him touching it could easily make it happen.
It will become less sensitive the more it is uncovered and he touches it.
the frequent erections will happen maybe if he doesn't touch it or tries to focus on his school work that might help reduce it happening during the day at school.
Yeah if it is making a stain might be good to tell him to go to the washroom if he feels it is going to happen then he can clean himself right away.
With puberty if you haven't already talking to him about keeping under his foreskin clean should be done also.
It will become less sensitive the more it is uncovered and he touches it.
the frequent erections will happen maybe if he doesn't touch it or tries to focus on his school work that might help reduce it happening during the day at school.
Yeah if it is making a stain might be good to tell him to go to the washroom if he feels it is going to happen then he can clean himself right away.
With puberty if you haven't already talking to him about keeping under his foreskin clean should be done also.
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Yes we talked about him cleaning it. I was surprised he showed me that it would slide back and asked about the smegma. He says if it’s warm or after playing ball in the gym he has quite a bit of it inside his foreskin. He is still pretty small down there. He told me that he gets erect just very quick he gets “trembles and shakes inside and quivers on outside then he says the “squirts” start and when it happens he can’t stop it. Yes has been an interesting 2 weeks.
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He won't be able to stop it but maybe he will be able to get to the washroom in time to do it in a tissue or clean himself if it happens and dry his underwear with paper towel.
All part of puberty his friends are no doubt going through similar things if they have started puberty early as well.
If he needs to maybe putting a change of underwear in with his gym clothes will let him change before the stain shows on his pants.
He is just starting puberty he no doubt has lots of things he is wondering about its good he comfortable talking to you about it and he probably checks for information online also.
All part of puberty his friends are no doubt going through similar things if they have started puberty early as well.
If he needs to maybe putting a change of underwear in with his gym clothes will let him change before the stain shows on his pants.
He is just starting puberty he no doubt has lots of things he is wondering about its good he comfortable talking to you about it and he probably checks for information online also.
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I monitor his online activity. He chats a little on teen sites but not much. He has googled things about boys and a little about girls. He has looked a little at porn site (blocked it, it went right around filter). Told me he likes seeing his friends nude. He told me thinks about other boys when he masturbates. Ok he had a question I didn’t know answer. Is a boy’s semen clear and watery at the start? He says his is that way not like some of his friends that are more whitish
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Yes early in puberty it is normal for it to be clear and watery.
It does sound like this was not the first time he has done things with his friends.
It is almost impossible to block it a lot will show up even with the restrictions on.
It hard to say if this is just a phase some kids figure out their sexuality early either way at the moment his attraction to other boys is pretty strong which is fine he seems to be very comfortable with everything he is discovering.
It does sound like this was not the first time he has done things with his friends.
It is almost impossible to block it a lot will show up even with the restrictions on.
It hard to say if this is just a phase some kids figure out their sexuality early either way at the moment his attraction to other boys is pretty strong which is fine he seems to be very comfortable with everything he is discovering.
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Ok. Told him he could go nude in house as long as it’s just us here. Also told him it’s ok to masturbate just don’t hide or sneak to do it. Have a open door rule, and no locking bathroom door. Don’t want him to be ashamed. Always worried cause he is smaller (4’5 and 65lbs thin) than other boys. And he says he’s the only boy among his friends and classmates with a foreskin, and the shape of it being longish. Don’t want he to be self conscious about him self.
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It sounds like he pretty comfortable with having a foreskin among his friends it doesn't seem to be something he is concerned about.
He sounds like a boy that is already very comfortable with who is and how he looks.
He sounds like a boy that is already very comfortable with who is and how he looks.
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Do you think it is ok go nude when his friends are over since I told his friends mothers that he goes nude in and around the house some.
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Not sure about that to be honest I guess it is up to you and how his friends parents feel about it.
They could be concerned about it lots of different opinions around that I would think.
They could be concerned about it lots of different opinions around that I would think.
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Ok thanks yes only a couple because I talk with their mothers quite a bit. One of the mothers asked about the bed wetting.
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If they're ok with it, why not? I would also ask him if he would like to get circumcised.
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If the OP is out there - face the hard facts, his masturbatory habits and sexual interests are nothing to do with you.
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