The exact same thing happened to me, it ruined our relationship. This behavior is a solid indication of even more disfunctional problems in the future. You are in a no win scenario, try your best to exit the relationship before you get in too deep.
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he rules the house, she lets him. You have no place there. Dump her. Move on.....find a woman with a spine. You're welcome
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Leave after a10 year relationship of excuses, I come to find she was ducking her son from as far as I know 11 yrs old and still now he is 20, The police have been involved, and she thinks she is above the law,, it's all gaanna come crash in down, go with the gut feel in I wish I would have,,, I closed a 100k + business down because of this,,, get while the gettin is good,, IT WILL NOT GET BETTER,,,SORRY BUT THE TRUTH
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I was like that until I was 12. What helped was slowly prying myself. We soon had it so they were sleepovers in separate bed then it gradually stopped. I know am a mother of 2 kids who are grown up and in college and on my girl I used the same technique.
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Bottom Line HE is your step child!! His mother is his Mom. Do not tread on their relationship.
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Hideous hideous hideous, isn't it blatantly obvious that mom is lonely and loves the company in bed, the son can't pull the hot chick at school so mums showing him the ropes on ALL levels, sh*t man your sister is one twisted s***
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It's never easy. That is why the problem is about the parent and not the kids. It's about us learning to cut the apron strings and nurturing the confidence, independence and sense of security in your parent-child relationship. It may break our heart, but it is in their best interests that it is done sooner rather than later.
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i agree. I to had problems sleeping in my own bed. It Mostly started when i was 9. My dad died. Ever since then i found it hard to sleep on my own. i didnt have to sleep with my mom though. As long as someone was in the same room at night with me i could sleep well. It doesn't help that i am also scared of the dark and i freak out if i hear noises in the night even if its just the wind.
Any Replys ?
Any Replys ?
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Be firm about it but i will say this if it does come to a point and u feel bad for him then let him sleep with you but thats just my opinion
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That is awesome if you really think about it...don't dig so deep into it and over think
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I'd like to hear how this worked out for you. Your girlfriend and her son doesn't seem ready for someone else in their lives and homes. I think that you doubt what she says about where her son sleeps speaks for itself.
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