I think thats the sweetest thing Ive ever read! You have an amazing husband! Thats what I think!
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My son is almost 13. He has been sleeping in my bed on and off his whole life. His father and him take turns on the couch and sometimes we all sleep together. Nothing about this is sexual at all. Get that outta the head. I have to be honest that I may lean on him sometimes for comfort so I might even ask him, do you wanna sleep in here tonight... He was so little just a few minutes ago.... I want to also let you know that my husband and I have gone without sex for almost 11 months. Best friends! Not big fighters or arguers. But having our 12 yr. old sleep in the bed does put a wedge in the sex life area... SO,I want to do a big rebuild fresh new bedroom and new bed. New desk etc.. Get it real nice and on his 13th birthday give him the key and present where he will now be sleeping. Mind you talking to him the whole time through the transition. Build him up so when that day comes, it won't hit too hard. I know I have too. I know I should have a long time ago. Glad I came in here and read some of the boys answer that did sleep in the same bed with their mums...
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I slept with my mom from about 11-13 years old, because my mattress was rock hard and very difficult to sleep in, but my mom's was soft memory foam. There was nothing wrong with me, sometimes she wasn't even in the room when I slept in her bed. I just loved her matress.
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Boi shut up lol your just annoyed cause you can’t get any with this woman. Kidding, kidding. Though I do believe you should let the boy adjust. I know that when my mom got a boyfriend (I was 10) I still slept with her and I despised him for it. It got better, but I still didn’t like the fact that he wanted to sleep with my mom. I felt he was going to take my place. I do not know if this woman has been divorced before or not, but if the child was in the middle of it, he will need major talking to if you can prove he’s sleeping with your partner. Don’t try to meddle to much though, if this child has been through I divorce I can assure you he won’t take kindly to you trying to, in his eyes, take his place. Hope this helps dude!
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it's not that easy I am 13 and still sleeps with my parents I am not sure why I find the need too but on my own, I can't sleep I can at sleepovers and other events just not by myself.
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yes we are a nudist fam too and includes myself,and my 6 boys ages 4 to nearly 13,i breastfeed all 6,we live on my property TROPICAL yes also vegan ,yoga,organic AND, with several other single mom nudist fams.the other moms call me MOTHER NATURE having very huge breasts and being very nurturing we all co-sleep better for nursing and total body massage...3 days a week all fams get to gather for one big fam massage and yoga
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do u see sex as bad and nasty..... it is natural ,,,why wedges u must see your boy have erections ...this is not bad but natural,he then is just asking for attention and relief...hubby would totally understand.yes ?
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other reply to " help this mom" forgot to mention all my boys to 12 yrs are nudists 24-7 so i see plenty of erections very very natural and not bad or nasty,,we should see and accept nature as natural,as well as natural feelings
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we nudist single moms see many erections as all the boys play in the nature...this is just natural now some adults do not like the idea of boys having erections,but it is very natural in playing ,massage, yoga,nursing, or for no reason at all,no more unusual than walking
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The mother has an issue of being to close to the son. I am aware of our female sexuality. The reason why the man spends the night is so he can have sex with the boy's mother. That is his most significant reason why he comes over, and the reason why the woman has him over is to have sex. It none of the man business what goes on in the family. He is a guest who is visiting. This one of the most significant issues of people visiting other people's homes is that they step into areas that are none of their concern. Women are good at stepping into other people's space and cause drama, which there nothing is going on.
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The boy does not have an issue of his mother being closed to other males. It could be that he see things about him that she does not need to be with. Also he may not feel OK with him being in the home. Children or parents do have the right to protect their home any time they feel it need to be done. It could be this man is using this woman for his own self needs. Does the man take interest in the woman children and do things for them. Children do have the right to speak up to parents about their friends and to let their parents know they do not feel safe in the home with this person.
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yeah cause its weird tf. grow up. how do i get my almost 13 year old brother to stop
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Touché !!! I’m a single mum and my daughter sleeps it’s me. She has sleepovers and when my partner comes over she sleeps in her own bed. Not a problem at all.
Western society are too cloistered!
Western society are too cloistered!
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