13 year old Still Sleeps With Mom

What if its a 22 year old man that has his mom sleeping in his bed every night, because this man suffers a sexual addiction to pornography and says he needs his mother in the bed to calm his sexual urge to get up at night and watch porn?? What if its so bad that this 22 year old grown man acts like a child around his mother but then is embarrassed to act that way in front of strangers. What the F@ck do you call that???

Get out of that "relationship"!!!

What do you mean stop acting like a child ? So 13 isnt a child ?
( I know this is a very late reply )

Kind of disgusting to see all the knee-jerk reactions by armchair advisers. My 13yo daughter recently tried to kill herself, and since that has wanted to sleep in the same bed as my wife (who frequently sleeps in another room downstairs, just to be clear, as she has had some sleep-related health issues recently). There is NOTHING sexual about this - it is a comfort and bonding thing, and to imply otherwise is frankly kind of disgusting. It honestly makes me wonder where your minds are sitting that you immediately jump to a sexual conclusion for this type of thing.

Every case is different - please quit with the knee jerk reactions, and try to give situational advice.

My girlfriend's daughter sleeps with her every night and I have to sleep on the couch. I resent this. The daughter is 13! Is this normal?

Absolutely agree! Single mom with 14 year old son and 12 year old daughter. We are 24/7 in home nudist. Both still sleep with me and nurse from my breasts. We have no hang ups about sex and help each other both manually and orally. Without the mental hang ups we can more fully enjoy sex and achieve more satisfying and larger orgasms. We are.very close and more loving because of it.

You have to do what is best for the child and will make her feel better, both emotionally and physically! I don't care if that includes sexual contact. It is better than having her kill herself. Don't let her Serian tension and frustration drive her to harming or killing herself. Sooth her; hug her . Let her feel your love thru the warmth of your body pressed against hers. Kiss her passionately to let her know your love for her is real and strong.Stroke her gently. If she needs more, passionately stroke and touch her intimate parts to give sexual release from the tension and frustration that might drive her to hurting herself. Show her that your love for her is not limited by artificial moral contraints. Show her how far you will go to show how great your love is for her. Sensuously, stroke and kiss he all over..
I am a 34 year old single mom.This is how I show my love for my 14 year old so and my 12 year old daughter. We have no hang ups and sleep together in the nude. We freely hug, stroke, kiss and give each other sequel release. As a result, we have a deeper lkve and closer relationship. Not only are there no emotional problems, but the physical part is more gratifying and satisfying without the hand ups. Much, much better than I was able to achieve with my ex husband.

Absolutely disgusting you should be ashamed of yourself that for sure is a form of sexual child abuse. I don’t care where are you live what country what state to have a grown parent walking around naked around six boys noticing that they’re getting erections looking at their mom and you thinking it’s cool is so cruel. Just wait your kids will be messed up.

If you read it completely they are wanting to move in together and this is an issue slowing their relationship. Sounds like your the same as his GF and can't tell their kid to grow up and there is something mentally wrong with you both. 13 yrs old the boy is near or starting puberty. Also a CHILD should bot be dictating how an adult relationship. This is the reason kids get removed then the parents wonder why. Also this is the reason kids grow up to have issues and doing inappropriate things.

Ummmmm… the child is still a kid. You don’t tell a child grow up when he’s still a child

Ummmmm… the child is still a kid. You don’t tell a child grow up when he’s still a child

Yes!!! I agree with this

Way too old to still be sleeping with mom. Here’s a tactic she could employ whenever the weather presents the opportunity: “Hey kiddo, it’s really warm tonight and we’ll each be more comfortable sleeping without any clothes, so you’ll need to sleep in your own room so we can both have the privacy we need. Who knows, maybe you’ll realize after a few nights that you really enjoy sleeping in the buff and want to keep doing it every night from now on like a lot of boys and men.” Once he realizes how great it feels, that’ll be the end of needing to sleep with Mommy.