Not to be rude but why would you even let them date im a 17 year old dating a 14 year old you shouldve seen this coming and talking to his parents is probably no good because they sound ignorant and in denial i swear for a 1e year old girl i have a lot of wisdom.
What a s*** ... I'd say kick her ass out if she can't follow the rules under your roof, she can find another one ... And that's not a mistake she knew full well what she was doing ... You don't 'accidentally' have sex with someone you've been dating ... Tramp
Haha I see someone failed at parenting ... What a self centered, all-knowing little c**t ... At least you can tell your future life partner how much sexual experience you had because you started in middle school, bet they'll be overjoyed!
She is not emotionally ready or mature enough for sex. Help her realize this. See a therapist if you have to.
Angela, you are so right. Why dont girls/ parents/ society understand this simple biological principle. I get so frustrated trying to tell people is is VERY VERY normal to have or want to have sex once you start your periods.
I love your reply. I started having sex when I was 13ish. I loved it and wanted it. It was instinctive.
I love your reply. I started having sex when I was 13ish. I loved it and wanted it. It was instinctive.
There are things called THE PILL and CONDOMS.
Wanting to have sex when a girl hits puberty is NORMAL
Wanting to have sex when a girl hits puberty is NORMAL
Teens will be teens. There is nothing wrong or right about having sex. What we fail to do it to prepare them for such unexpected events. Preparing them protects them and even though they may have done something you might consider wrong or amoral, at least they come to no harm.
We are all so preoccupied with religion, morals, piety, purity etc etc and try our desperate to prevent sex from happening BUT it happens and this is what everyone needs to understand. A biological normal physiological instinct can never be subdued, stifled or stopped. It will happen even if it means happening behind your back. There is no point then to cry over something like this happening if you havent prepared that girl. Stop focussing on being ready. No one can ever be ready and there is nothing known as being ready. Those are awful pieces of advice given by idiots and control freaks. Prepare your kids. Teach them about STDs and pregnancy, teach them about dangers of drugs and alcohol and treat them how to be safe even if they do fall into the temptation of having sex. That would be responsible parenting. What you are doing is lamenting. The horse has bolted. You cant blame anyone else but those religious blinkered narrow views that got your girl into this problem.
We are all so preoccupied with religion, morals, piety, purity etc etc and try our desperate to prevent sex from happening BUT it happens and this is what everyone needs to understand. A biological normal physiological instinct can never be subdued, stifled or stopped. It will happen even if it means happening behind your back. There is no point then to cry over something like this happening if you havent prepared that girl. Stop focussing on being ready. No one can ever be ready and there is nothing known as being ready. Those are awful pieces of advice given by idiots and control freaks. Prepare your kids. Teach them about STDs and pregnancy, teach them about dangers of drugs and alcohol and treat them how to be safe even if they do fall into the temptation of having sex. That would be responsible parenting. What you are doing is lamenting. The horse has bolted. You cant blame anyone else but those religious blinkered narrow views that got your girl into this problem.
you dont need to be emotionally ready. At 13 and 14 there are hormones raging and a physical need for sex and sexual excitement and fulfillment. Masturbation in girls is at its peak starting from about 9 or 10. At 12 girls masturbate a lot. I know that for sure being a girl. For the goody 2 shoes to then go and tell that teen that she has to be emotionally ready before she has sex is awful because you stifle that girl's needs and teach her that somehow sex should only be had in the setting of committment. So, she then develops the attitude that sex is bad otherwise and should not happen. Instinct then overrides all these morals and she falls for the temptation to have sex. This then brings on those destructive feelings of guilt. A very sad situation.
I can't see why society cant celebrate the girl exploring her sexuality. Why is it that girls are stifled and told to wait till they are married when it comes to sex. Does anyone give the same advice to boys?? What hypocrisy !!
I can't see why society cant celebrate the girl exploring her sexuality. Why is it that girls are stifled and told to wait till they are married when it comes to sex. Does anyone give the same advice to boys?? What hypocrisy !!
Can a doctor tell if you've been having sex? Btw I'm a girl & I'm 15.
When a girl has her first period she is now at "childbearing age", this also comes with a huge package of hormones, its natures way for her to want a man inside her, parental talk should not be about abstinence it doesn't work, it should be about birth control choices and openness with sex talk with parent, the biggest problem today is religion and old religious inspired sex laws.
If this was 60 years ago I would say yes, he could tell if you have been opened with the absence of your hymen, but in todays world 9-10-11 yo girls are opening themselves with toys and fingers because it feels good, so the doc will not know if your c..t is being used or just a big toy.
you are so right!! We are so far behind in this respect.
NOPE he wont. He will know your hymen is broken but he wont know the reason for that especially if youve been using toys