I am a 17 year old girl (turning 18 later this year), and I have been masturbsting since I was 12..13?
The thing is I have had sexual thoughts since I was 6 (due to heavy influence from the media). Looking back, I realized my dreams/thoughts were really erotic for asix years old. I just found out that those dreams are like the bondage, humiliaition, etc that you'd get in porn.
FOr the past 5, 6 years. I have always felt bad after masturbating, yes i do get orgasms sometimes. I feel kinda depressed, lonely ad sucidal. The thing is I do not want to have sex...with a guy anyway. I would do it for a couple of days, then would stop for anoher few days, week and sometimes months. Is it even healthy? I don't like this addiction. Most of my girlfriends do not masturbate(except for 1 close friend of mine and she seems happy. I wish i could be like her.) Nobody really knows and I am tired, especially since i have my own laptop to use at anytime of the day.
I wish to stop.
The thing is I have had sexual thoughts since I was 6 (due to heavy influence from the media). Looking back, I realized my dreams/thoughts were really erotic for asix years old. I just found out that those dreams are like the bondage, humiliaition, etc that you'd get in porn.
FOr the past 5, 6 years. I have always felt bad after masturbating, yes i do get orgasms sometimes. I feel kinda depressed, lonely ad sucidal. The thing is I do not want to have sex...with a guy anyway. I would do it for a couple of days, then would stop for anoher few days, week and sometimes months. Is it even healthy? I don't like this addiction. Most of my girlfriends do not masturbate(except for 1 close friend of mine and she seems happy. I wish i could be like her.) Nobody really knows and I am tired, especially since i have my own laptop to use at anytime of the day.
I wish to stop.
I too feel the same way at times where we can't share are pleasures with someone, but there isn't much we or anyone can do about it except keeping occupied 24/7 and being too tired to think about doing it.
You say most of your friends except one don't masturbate but the truth there embarrassed to say they do, but really if you stop or not you have nothing to feel bad about yourself.
You say most of your friends except one don't masturbate but the truth there embarrassed to say they do, but really if you stop or not you have nothing to feel bad about yourself.
Dont be depressed. masturbation is healthy and normal. everyone masturbates. everyone does it. :) you are at that age where its time to become sexually active. If you feel lonely, surround yourself with people you love and trust. talk to your very best best best friend about how you feel, if she is honest i assure you that she will relate to you. if you are sexually lonely and but you are afraid to take the step, dont be. you would be amazed by how many guys or girls (what ever you prefer) would want to have sex with you. its ok :) everyone has these feelings at your age. i started masturbating when i was 11 and i assure you everyone does it at an early age. :) be curious about yourself. explore your body. :) its all part of life :)
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I started masturbating at 12, i am 15 now. masturbation is natural, and i to have had that bad feeling, but only after masturbating more then i should of. Once a day or even twice is a good place to start, because withdrawal syndromes to apply, and you may find yourself caving in to your desires and pleasuring yourself even more.
you seems to be very sensitive. present generation is on same track. do not feel guilty. have good friends who always keep you busy in recreation.
your activity is not at all abnormal. your orientation is very moral and likely to keep good attitude. have confidence in self and lead a good life.
nothing wrong with you.
be brave and face the challenge in life. deviate mind from sex. come back to me . i will help you with moral and ethical sense.
your activity is not at all abnormal. your orientation is very moral and likely to keep good attitude. have confidence in self and lead a good life.
nothing wrong with you.
be brave and face the challenge in life. deviate mind from sex. come back to me . i will help you with moral and ethical sense.
Stop being feeling guilty about masturbating, all boys do it and most girls as well, however, girls will not say that they masturbate like guys would, if a boy did not masturbate there would be something wrong with him, same with a female, most girls don't SAY they masturbate although they do.
Masturbating is a bad habit to do...
one thing to say..
Look for a muslim who will help you to find the answer...
one thing to say..
Look for a muslim who will help you to find the answer...
Sorry but masturbafion is not healthy ..
check your information.
check your information.
Yeah, he'll show you how to beat your wife instead of your meat.
Hi.. im a guy and i feel your pain.. im looking for a sober companion to chat with and maybe come clean together.. no pun intended...
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