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I have tears in my eyes right now and it's not from the eyelash dye!!!!

I am SO PROUD of you Lisa!!! That was and is awesome!!!! Doesn't it feel great to get a bit of respect back? He WILL remember that for ever!!! I am litterally covered in goosebumps!!! Go the Crack of Dawn Club!!!! ;-) XD

It sounds to me - regarding your upset stomach - that this is probably from your brain too!!! When we have hurt SO much in the past, our brain will do WHATEVER it takes to protect us - as in making us NOT go to the toilet etc. So I think that would explain a lot with yourself and Wendy! Your brain is saying "Hold on girls, I'll keep it in here as long as possible to help you guys out!" Then all of a sudden you take a laxative or stool softener and force the issue, then you hurt and are feeling ill to your stomachs! It's a catch 22! That's why I drink!!!! ;-) XD

You know when we had our kids? We knew that our eyes crossed right, but we can't remember the pain as in physically! It's the same with what we all went through with our vagayjays and our bums isn't it? We know that they were and are in a mess, but I for one, cannot remember how long it took me to recover from the anal damage! I know it was awhile, but my main concern was the Planet Venus!!! Not Uranus!!! ;-) XD My point is - yes I know I do ramble - that I think it is normal what you both are going through, granted yours - Lisa - is in the 2 percentile, but all that means is that in every 100 operations there are 2 other people feeling like you right now! So it's not unheard of! IF this new and improved docotr feels you are healing, you must be showing (internally anyway) some sort of improvement!

You know when you loose weight, and you don't really think you are and then someone who hasn't seen you in a few weeks says "BOY! have you lost weight!" It's the same thing when we are healing, we think "c**p!!! Whenever is this going to end" But then someone else looks at it and says "That looks a lot better than last time"! It's the same thing! So just keep thinking "OK small steps!!!" I am worried about you loosing so much weight though honey! I haven't been in size 10 girls clothing since I was 2 years old!!!! XD XD XD ;-)

I am always in awe of a womans strength, we will fight to the death for our children, and we can endure so much pain and continue! We have bad hair days and survive etc. ;-) XD

I have Naired my legs and underarms, I have started Fake Bake lotion, I am trying to make my "natural" blonde hair not appear so "ROOTY!!!" and trying to survive on green tea and find a body suit that will hold ALL my junk in a VERY tight TRUNK!!!!! That's right ladies "I'm BAAAAAAACKKKKK!!!!" ;-) XD The Vodka helped!!! ;-)

Anyway hugs and love to all! Will talk to you all soon! Once again Miss Lisa "WAY TOO GO GIRLFRIEND!!!!!!"
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Dawn? Dawn? Hooooolllllddd on here.. I need to clairfy something here... My 12 year old neice is taller than me, she's like 5 foot 7 inches and she wears junior clothing.. Not size 10 in kids!!!! Oh my, thats funny.... Oh, that is hilarious... I should of said something... My 10 year old is not a petite girl but she's not obese either... she's build strong and thick like her daddy... My other two kids take after me.. I mean come on, I was never 100 pounds in Highschool either... I weigh a good weight... but like you said, when people don't see you in awhile, they looked shocked or think I have some disease or something.... My girlfriend at work (she's only 21), she's like a lil sis to me.. she's always been a little heavy and she hugged me and she said "girl you need to eat"... you look too skinny... she's so funny... she went to work telling everyone I need to eat! I won't be going back to work because of our move but I'm going in this Friday to say goodbye, so some people may be shocked but they all seen me thinner when I first started working there 7 years ago before I got preggo with kid #3.. LOL... I had been breastfeeding kid #2 and got really skinny... I think maybe 120.. I'm about 5 foot 5 inches, so for me thats thin...but as a model, I'd be plus size right? LOL.... Anyways.. you are so funny.... Good luck at your wedding you are going to... I know you will be the life of the party thats for sure!!! Lots of hugs... and Love....
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Hey Lisa! Soooo good to hear from you! I'm happy your lil girls party was a bash, this was such a great way to start her year. Maybe when things settle somewhat, you can get your oldest daughter into some inexpensive activity at her new school. Maybe you could work with your husbands schedule until you feel better? My daughter is also in a tiny Christian school and it would be very a big transition for her to go to the public school, so I understand!

I turned 42 this Monday. I'm still losing weight by drinking the Veganique twice a day. Most of my size 10 pants fit me, but are a bit tight. I'm 5' 8, almost 5' 9". Just 5lbs more and I'll be at my normal PRE-Surgerys (four of them) weight! I'm just going to try to make this drink a lifestyle. Two drinks, two meals, two snacks, my B's and my omega's. Hubby is losing weight too, and that really makes me happy because I've been so worried about him.

I am so sorry to hear that you're still hurting, hun. It has got to be so frustrating. I'm so proud of you for writing that letter and I say that YOU ARE the one that's strong! It sounds like he, for the first time, really listened to you and his response was compassion! Thanks to you, there's hope for him yet! I definitely think you probably helped the next patient by being so strong. As Dawn says "you go girl!"

Dawn, you are such a crazy, adorable person. You're going to shine as a special person, no matter what you put on that bod of yours! When I'm bloated and I have to go somewhere special, I'll wear a body suit, and then wear something forgiving such as a flared shirt and black skirt, with dressy black shoes. Then have your shot of vodka (unless your driving! o.O ) before you walk out the door! ;-) XD

Lol, talk to you gals later and sending my cyberspace hugs to both of you, Wendy
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120!!!!!! That's my left leg!!!!!! My right is a "Curvey" 100!!!! ;-) XD Thanks honey!
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Hi everybody,
Lisa my congrats to you. See when you told him, then it is a new story. He can be kind to a patient only if he wants to be. Well I think there is no need to go to him if you are moving, just find another doctor there. I think when you move and settle down at your parents place, and you start to heal you will get your weight again.

Wendy I'm few days late but Happy birthday. All the best to you and I wish you good health and all the happiness in the world.

Dawn is the wedding this weekend?
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Wendy? Ok, here it goes... Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday to you... Happy Birthday dear Wendy... Happy Birthday to you... and many more!!! Ok, how did that sound? LOL Wow you are tall, you could be a supermodel!!!! Size 10 being that tall.. you are skinny! Yes I'm hating... Ha ha.. Well I'm going to see if my oldest is interested in anything and I'll do my best to help her out to meet new friends... She said her school is having a sign up for a spelling bee... and she's wonderful at spelling, way better than I am thats for sure! So I don't know if she wants to do that or not? There's a big church about 30 minutes away and we had visited it at Easter time and everyone seem so nice! Lots of people my kids age, my husband and my age, so I think that would be good... We have not been in church for awhile and I think thats what we need... Yes this public school is Huge! But it was voted one of the best in the state, so I guess I should not complain huh? My kids are very smart and I will miss them going to the Christian school, simply because they could pray there and they learned about the world but it was all about God.. I know public schools don't do this... I know when I was in grade school, we would pray and they would read parts of the Bible... I know things have changed but I don't feel if I pray, I should not offend someone... Its like if someone was gothic or someone who curses all the time... I have to look at that and hear that and it offends me... so I just don't like what the world has become sometimes... I know I sound like I'm 80 years old right? LOL Really there's a few gothic people I work with and they are super nice.. I was just trying to make a point... Wow, I'm glad that you and your hubby are losing weight together... I really wish my husband would lose some weight too... It really worries me about his health a lot.. I think he's a stress eater and when he lost his job, thats how he deals with his stress.... Me, I take xanax (the easy way out)... Ha ha.. I have not had a BM in 3 days... On your b-day it was day 5 when I finally went... Happy b-day Wendy!! Ha ha ha ha.. Oh my... So I need to get some of that stuff you and Dawn brag about... so I can brag with you! I hope you are doing ok today and have a good one... Lots of Hugs to you!!! :-D

Dawn, like I said before.. You are going to be the HOTTEST chic in the wedding! Moooovvvvee over bride because here come Dawn walking down the isle.. with her fake tan, colored hair and waxed body... Oooo Laaaaa... Ha ha... yeah I was going to a tanning bed before my surgeries and then my grandma and mom cut out a clip in the newspaper and said its really really bad... so I just go outside and lay in my lounge chair for awhile to get my vitamins from the natural sun.. but I can't lay outside naked... darn it! Ha ha.. Oh my, what a site that would be.. You'd see me on the news for indecent exposure.. and you would say to youself... Hey I know that girl... and her butt looks nice after two surgeries.... LOL... I had to say it!!! Ok, well you have a wonderful day too.. Lots of hugs.... :-D

Dr. Red???? Hey whats happening? Yes I am proud of myself.. but I could not have done it without you guys, so thank you! Its just like Dawn said, you get so vunerable (sp)? and you are humilated already and you just don't have the courage to say anything, especially when you are always rushed... so writing a letter helped me feel better about not only myself but for everyone else who doesn't have the courage to say anything to him... I did nothing wrong, I told him that I respected him however I feel he could be more tender and compassionate.. so at least I told him the honest truth! I was mature about it and really thought it through... I almost chickened out though and my grandmother just nodded, so I took that as a yes and I handed it to him... So thank you granny! Ha ha.. Oh, I would just die if you were my doctor and was reading all this... You are aren't you? Or you are the FBI or in the CIA.... I just knew it... Ha ha.. Ok, call me paranoid if you will... You know my life and butt problems but you don't know my face... Ha ha ha ha.. XD Ok, you have a great day as well... I'm going to eat some yummy cereal... Hugs :-D
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If I laid naked outside I would bring down the space station and thousands of planes from the sun flashing off my body!!!!! o.O 8) I LOVE tanning, but I can't now! The incision is still not quite healed!!!!!!? So I just don't want to keep having surgeries yet have a wonderful bronzed body!! My dilemma is Do I look like bronzed bride of Frankenstein, or do I look like a white marshmellow?! It's a hard call!!!! ;-) XD

DR: I am NOT talking to YOU!!!!! ;-) XD Unfortunately it's this Saturday! I'm more nervous than she is!!! There will be pictures and everything I DONT like pictures!!! My Facebook picture is when I was 22!!!!

Wendy, Happy Birthday to You Happy Birthday to You, You're Totally Famous Because of UrANUS, Happy Birthday to You!!!! XD XD XD I thought of that myself!!!! ;-)

Lisa, Christian, Public, Goth, etc. It is what is in their heart and soul that counts! I know MANY different people, Gothic, Rasta, Hippies, Christian, Jewish, Buddhist, Some of them good and some of them bad! In all Religions and Cultures and Nationalities, there are DECENT people and Evil! I look at some of our world leaders who walk into a church with their head held high and I think "NOW THAT's SACRELIGIOUS!!!" They put their hands on bibles and do horrible things too people! I remember after Columbine, and that Film guy Roger something asked Marilyn Manson "What would you say to those boys at Columbine?" And Marilyn Manson replied "I wouldn't have said anything I would have listened!!!!!" I will ALWAYS remember that!!!

My boys go to Catholic School, and I will tell yourself and Wendy, some of the kids in those schools!!!!!!!! o.O There's pregnancies abound, drugs, shootings, gangs, etc. You should see some of the pictures my son receives from girls, that are DYING to go out with him!!! It is pornography!!!! I have always been very open with my boys, and started talking to a LOT of uninformed kids on here! It is ABSOLUTELY amazing what these "KIDS" get up too and DONT know!!! After talking to teenagers on here, I close the laptop and start a sermon with the boys!!! My eldest said last night "Oh her she goes, what girl thinks she's pregnant today?!" I think kids have lost their way, more than any other time in history! They all try to be older than they are! Not only Calendar Age, but Soul Age! They aren't ready! It is heart breaking to me, that they have such little respect for themselves and others. So it's up to us as parents to guide them as much as possible and teach them right from wrong, and to treat people like human beings and decently!

So anyway thats the sermon for the day!!! ;-) Because I am "Slightly" older than you I will give you - wether you want it or not - my lifes experiences!!!!! ;-) XD

Hugs to all!
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Hi Mrs. Dawn! Yes you are right, its sad but true about the way kids are nowadays... they try to grow up way too fast! My 12 year old neice told me that there are girls and boys involved with sex already in her classes.. I told her to wait, its not worth it... she's very mature, she said I am going to wait... I think its great that you can talk to your boys like that.. Its so important for us as mothers to be able to have a good relationship with our kids and we can talk to them and they can trust us... And we are responsible for teaching them right from wrong.. I totally agree with you on that one! I'm just so nervous about all this teenager stuff.. My oldest is only 10... It took me 3 years to get preggo, so we had our children kind of late (which is fine by me)... I don't think I could of done it when I was younger than I was... I was not ready to settle in at that age.. It happenend when it was supposed to and I have 3 beautiful children that I've been blessed with! Hate to cut things short but I just had another bad BM and I'm bleeding and in a lot of pain... I'm so sick of complaining already... What I'm going on Month 4? How rediculous.... I always try to do other things to get my mind off of it but when you have a BM, you really have no choice in the matter.... It has to happen! Hugs to you... have a great night... Luv... :-D
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I took the Senecot last night! Not that nice is it?! Anyway it helped! WTMI!! I know

I was just talking to a teenage boy about something REALLY shocking, that is growing on the internet and in between boys in particular! I talkd to my eldest and of COURSE he knows all about it and "It's OK mom everyone does it!!!!!" I am like this o.O So Anyways I just wrote an alert about it! I don't think I did it right though, it was an article thing! I put it in the Mens Section, but I think I should have put it in the Parent Section!

So I just got a call from my girlfriend the bride and we are going to do the manicure tommorrow!!!! I am actually hyperventillating about it!! I just feel and look like a frump! i don't feel well, I'm in pain like you wouldn't believe, and I HAVE to be there for my girl! It will take everything in me over these next couple of days!!! I know I sound selfish, but ever since I've been in pain and ALL that comes with that, I am on disability, and just stay home and don't go out as much as I used to! I talk to my girlfriends everyday by phone, but rarely get together anymore! I just feel like a failure, I used to be superwoman! I cooked, cleaned, kept the kids clean and off to school, even mowed the lawn, grovery shopped, and worked Fulltime nights! NOW!! NADA!!! It's hard for me to get accustomed to my life as it is now! That is why I find it helpful on here, I can share my personal experiences yet get support too - like my Crack of Dawn Club!

Years ago, I was quite the catch! Tall, blonde, blue eyed, busty, slim etc. And now!! I don't recognize myself! My girl - the bride - has been my friend for over 30 years! And so selfishly I will be beside her on Saturday thinking "Oh God don't take pictures of me! Don't take pictures!" Because she is a Scrap Booker and probably has the most photos on Facebook of anyone else! So I know that my picture is going out there! Isn't that horrible?!!!! How shallow of me!!! I swear I could just start hyperventillating!

She understands how I feel, she just called me - bless her - and said "Hi Darling, how's the pain, how's the breathing, how's the fake tan going?!" She knows its hard for me! and that's why I love her so much and WILL be there come hell or high water!!! i will just look like this :-D Anyways Sorry guys, I sound so selfish and self centered, which isn't what I'm about! Bare with me, there's only 2 more days till I go back to frumpy!!! ;-)
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Hi everybody,

Dawn this is so true. It is not just that they are ready in their calendar age, by when they are mature enough to do this and (if there is any) bare consequences. This is a very good post. And a good thing that you have raised your children this way. They should be thankful to you very much.

And yes all most forgot , have good time tomorrow. :)



Lisa, first a :). I think that you are the one that first started to call me Dr. Red. :) No I'm not a doctor, so fire on, don't be scared of anything. You have to know that you have help others by doing this. If he really saw where he made a mistake to you, then he should correct it on other patients.
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I should have posted this when I first read it but THANK you for this info! My friend has been really happy with it. His diet has been cooking along and he's enjoyed it a lot. IN fact, he's gotten better at a record pace and I think he may start work early next month already. I know, I can't ebelieve it!







I"ve been serving up some black eyed peas and cabbage soup and he loves it. I use an old Southern recipe and he goes wild for it. Actually, thanks to your advice, I seem to have gained a new roommate. His lease is up next month and he's decided to move in with me thanks to my care. I didn't expect it but I sure could use someone to split rent with me. I'm pretty happy about it. I guess I should thank all of you, because if I wasn't able to make him happy, he wouldn't have moved in.
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Hi everybody,
it seams that everyone is gone or very busy these past few days. I hope that you all are doing well and that you will post soon here.

Best regards.
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Hi everyone, I wrote to Lisa, Dawn, HFG and Dr. Red,

But for some reason it didn't post >:(

Oh, well! In brief, I'm happy about your new roomie HFG! Dawn how was the wedding? Dr. Red and Lisa, thank you for the b-day greeting and also Lisa, how is the move going and how are you feeling?

Hugs to my cyberfriends, I miss hearing from you!
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Hiya ALL!! The wedding was wonderful, it was VERY casual and my girl was stunning! So we just enjoyed ourselves and it was a lovely relaxing day - except I did the bouquets at 3pm and we had to be in another town by 5!!!!! So that was a little hairy, but all ended well! And after fake tanning for 4 days, and a STIFF girdle I felt a bit better about pictures! Isn't that so narcasistic!!

Went to the genetisist yesterday and I definitely have this rare syndrome, then he said "how are you dealing with this diagnosis, do you need counselling or therapy to deal with everything?" o.O o.O o.O o.O "Exsqueeze me?!!!!!!!" I turned to him and said "Is this life threatening?!!!" He said "not usually, when you look at all the people they tend to live as long as others, it can be shorter depending on the type of cancers you get!!!!!!" o.O o.O o.O "EXSQUEEZE ME!!!?" So I can't have anymore Xrays or Mri's etc. and I can't be out in the sun at ALL! And have to find ALL my health files since I was really young - so they can research through the old stuff instead of putting me through more tests! I swear people, my ancestors nailed Jesus to the Cross!!!!!! He also thinks that my youngest son has one of the rarest problems on record - 2 syndromes!!!!! 2 RARE syndromes!!! So all of my family has to be researched! All I kept thinking was "I chose the wrong week to stop sniffing glue!!!!" - XD ;-) That's an Airplane quote! One of my favorite movies of all time!

Ever since I took that Senocet I haven't felt very well! Now I know that it's not for everyone! I hope Lisas move went well and she is taking it easy!

How you doing Wendy? What are we going to do when we get yourself and Lisa all better? :'( We will have to do weekly convo's or something!

Love to all! Hope to hear all is well!
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Hi Dawn! Happy to hear about the wedding, sad to hear about the suspect diagnoses. What a drag, man! (There's a bit of my age comming out!) 8)

So you stopped sniffing glue this week? ;-) Lol, that was pretty funny. :-D I heard something funny this week about something my grampa said when he turned 85. My mom said, "So, dad, what did you do for your birthday?" Grampa said, "I looked out the window........ and slowly peed my pants." o.O

Yup, that was my grampa!

I hope you figure out what's going on, hun.

Lisa, how are you feeling, dear?

Hugs to you both, Wendy
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