so me and my gf have been together for almost 3 years and have been having sex for prolly around 2 1/2 years. So we have had sex roughly 700-900 times. no im not counting. That is just a crazy estimate. I have gave her an orgasm maby 4 times. 1 time through anal sex, oral,vaginal, clit stimulation. Yea it's wierd it worked out that way. But thatmisnt very good for the amount we have sex. She has no problem orgasming through touching herself. And sometimes she touches herself before we have sex so it's more enjoyable for her, I feel like she isn't into the sex we have cuz she knows she won't cum. Sometimes it feels really good for her and I can tell she isn't lieing. but sometimes she just isnt into it at all. The times she came from me was probably a year ago. Besides the clit stimulation, that was prolly a month ago..... I feel like this is going to hurt our relationship, what can I do to make her cum!
Hi, you say that sometimes she just doesn't seem to be into it well maybe that's the case and she just has full intercourse to please you.
You say she can bring herself to orgasm well then I would say get her to teach you how to do it as most females find it very hard to orgasm through just intercourse alone.
It could also be that your not giving her enough forplay to get her relaxed and in the mood, there are many reasons and some females find it very hard to orgasm at all when there with there partner specially if they feel pressured to so just take things easy let her teach you what feels good through masturbation and what position feels good during intercourse and just let it happen naturally.