I have a condition called PCOS. The doctors told me I was unable to have kids. I was completely devistated. My Fiance and I were looking towards adoption, and as we started to contact some adoption agencies I found out I was pregnant. A few weeks later I had a miscarriage. I was mortified. After that my Fiance and I tried and tried again, and I'm happy to report I'm now 4 months pregnant. I couldn't imagine killing my child. Although my child isn't born yet, it still is alive. That child has no voice for itself. These girls out here need to take responsibility and stop sleeping around. It's sick these babies have to die for the males, and females own pleasure. If your old enough and mature enough to do the action, you should be mature enough to handle the situation. People don't understand just because that baby isn't able to be seen wrapped up in a blanket sleeping in a crib, it's still being protected by the mothers womb and still a living baby. Even though my child isn't born yet, I love my baby more than anything, I just don't understand how other people can't think the same.
i didnt sleep around. i was with a boy i loved, and still do love.
i found out i was pregnant at just 5 weeks, and booked an abortion even though i was unsure if i was going to have it.
i decided not to. i wanted to keep the baby, then 3 weeks later i changed my mind. i realised at 17 with no visible support money wize, and still in college full time i could not give a baby the life it deserved.
i could have given it up for adoption, however i dont think i could ever live with myself if i found out it had been treated badly, or harmed in anyway with people i trusted to bring up my child.
i am struggling to deal with the fact it has gone, and want it back alot. but i know that what i did was ok. it was not murder, i was growing a baby, and i chose not to grow it anymore.
i cant wait to be able to provide for the children i am planning in the future. i think anyone who is considering an abortion and getting abused or forced to think otherwise should take time on thier own to realise what they want/dont want out of life and think of how happy they can make the baby and themselves.
we should not judge people for the choices they make on thier own bodies, it does not affect anyone how it affects them. they will feel the most pain, loss, and confusion. you people who shout and scream your views, and talk about heaven and hell, you are the people who will never understand how hard it is, and how, although you see it as a bad thing we see it as the only way out that suits us, that we can deal with.
i found out i was pregnant at just 5 weeks, and booked an abortion even though i was unsure if i was going to have it.
i decided not to. i wanted to keep the baby, then 3 weeks later i changed my mind. i realised at 17 with no visible support money wize, and still in college full time i could not give a baby the life it deserved.
i could have given it up for adoption, however i dont think i could ever live with myself if i found out it had been treated badly, or harmed in anyway with people i trusted to bring up my child.
i am struggling to deal with the fact it has gone, and want it back alot. but i know that what i did was ok. it was not murder, i was growing a baby, and i chose not to grow it anymore.
i cant wait to be able to provide for the children i am planning in the future. i think anyone who is considering an abortion and getting abused or forced to think otherwise should take time on thier own to realise what they want/dont want out of life and think of how happy they can make the baby and themselves.
we should not judge people for the choices they make on thier own bodies, it does not affect anyone how it affects them. they will feel the most pain, loss, and confusion. you people who shout and scream your views, and talk about heaven and hell, you are the people who will never understand how hard it is, and how, although you see it as a bad thing we see it as the only way out that suits us, that we can deal with.
NO i dont think you should have an abortion. you have human being growing inside you now.thats murder.he/she is three months away from breathing fresh air.dont do it
I know how bad abortion may sound but its better that than get the baby here and give it a bad life. And for everyone who is telling you otherwise as far as putting up for adoption they have no clue what its like to be a ward of the state and have no parents so don't put your child through that. If its not possible God won't let it happen.
DONT DO IT....that baby is nearly fully grown that would be far...if u dont want it at least give it up for adoption.
NO, I don't think you should have an abortion , you have 3 months left to bring this baby into a new world you wiil feel different towards this baby when he/she is born.PLEASE HAVE A LITTLE MORE PATIENCE.
i would not advice an abortion at this stage its way to late i have a niece born just short of 6month an she is now a happy health 3year old not a single thing wrong with her
either way its murder i dont care if youre two weeks or two months but giving the baby up for adoption is hard too i had a baby when i was 15 and gave it up for adoption i went to counceling and still cry everyday and im 25 now for 1 my baby got stuck in the system because it was through a private agency i didnt want ads and people to know and now i dont know where my baby is and i wait for the day my son looks for me when hes older and want to know why i have the answers but to me it feel selfish to go on with life and not know if hes adopted if hes ok if hes alive its more pain that comes with giving a baby up take it from me i know and ive been around people that went through the same thing its your decision and honestly asking people on here wont help you cause they not in your shoes talk to someone that loves you and you trust best
anyone have advice for me? i found this forum trying to look up pregnancy at about 6 months and abortion. i'm writing a case analysis for my bioethics class about a woman who was shot and in a coma with slim chances of survival. she is 5.5 months pregnant. the pulmonologist wants to give her the abortion because he believes she will have a better chance of survival. the obstetrician wants to keep the baby because its so close to being viable and the mother's wishes are unknown. the woman has a 5-year-old daughter and lives at her mother's house who is her only living relative. her mother wants her to survive and come home, which implies she wants the abortion, however, she admits that she also doesnt want to assume full responsibility for the 5-year-old and the child should the mother die, meaning she is swayed by a conflict of interest.
i'm currently leaning on the side of abortion since she doesn't appear to be in a very good condition (one collapsed lung etc etc) and it is implied she has little chances of surviving with the baby. cessarean is too strenuous of an operation and appears to not be an option. anyone?
also, don't throw around the word murderer so easily. if a situation pushed me to aborting my child (no matter how much i may want it) so late in pregnancy, i'd probably be so distraught i'd go into depression if so many people accuse my of murder so harshly. lets try to be as unassuming as possible k?
i'm currently leaning on the side of abortion since she doesn't appear to be in a very good condition (one collapsed lung etc etc) and it is implied she has little chances of surviving with the baby. cessarean is too strenuous of an operation and appears to not be an option. anyone?
also, don't throw around the word murderer so easily. if a situation pushed me to aborting my child (no matter how much i may want it) so late in pregnancy, i'd probably be so distraught i'd go into depression if so many people accuse my of murder so harshly. lets try to be as unassuming as possible k?
Abortion is a very personal choice, I for a long time thought having an abortion was wrong. Why should a baby have to be terminated because of my actions? I was pregnant at 14, my mother went to prison and let me alone. I had her was in a foster home and decided to give her up for adoption when she turned 3. I was still in high school, I started to resent her and I hated myself for it.
Later in life I again became pregnant this time I was just recently married and wasn't ready to bring a baby into such a new marriage. I thought it would add to much stress on our new situation. So I had an abortion, It was a big emotional ordeal for me. I think about daily even though it's been like 7yrs or so I still think about it. So all I am saying is I have been on both sides of the fence. It's a personal choice for you and only you to make regardless of what you decide. God will forgive you, I spoke with him on both decisions. If anyone on here needs to vent, needs to talk, need advice on where to go or just to talk I am here. Good luck :-)
Later in life I again became pregnant this time I was just recently married and wasn't ready to bring a baby into such a new marriage. I thought it would add to much stress on our new situation. So I had an abortion, It was a big emotional ordeal for me. I think about daily even though it's been like 7yrs or so I still think about it. So all I am saying is I have been on both sides of the fence. It's a personal choice for you and only you to make regardless of what you decide. God will forgive you, I spoke with him on both decisions. If anyone on here needs to vent, needs to talk, need advice on where to go or just to talk I am here. Good luck :-)
I am in no way shape or form for abortion. I'm six months and I love my baby with all my heart but that's me. I can't judge you because that's not my place and niether should anyone else. Let he who is without sin cast the first stone. Let God deal with it. Insulting her and calling her names don't solve anything. We don't know her reason for even asking the question. I would encourage her to look into other options but by no means would I ever insult her because I don't know her pain and niether do you. I hope this will not only encourage this person to reconsider but also to encourage people to not be so judgmental and quick to insult a person.
Abortion is abortion whenever it is preformed! YOu are still killing a baby and it is not acceptable at any time. If you dont want children then take better precautions.
its not a wonderful thing to have an abortion but id rather have it under me that i "killed" my baby than to give it away n have it raped or mistreated its hole life
Abortions aren't bad if you have true reasons to get one. What if her body can't handle it? Her mind can't handle it? I understand people getting angry, but don't put a person down for personal reasons, its rude and mean. When I found out I was pregnant I was 5 months and my doctor considered an abortion, so I'm not quite sure about 6 months.
YOUR 6 MONTHS AND WANT TO GET AN ABORTION??? WHY DID YOU EVEN WAIT THIS LONG? I DON’T THINK ANYONE WITH A HEART CAN DO A ABORTION AT 6 MONTHS YOUR ACTUALLY GOING TO BE A **** OF A BLESSING YOU HAVE INSIDE. YOU SHOULD HAVE THE BABY, ITS ONLY 3 MONTHS LEFT AND THEN GIVE IT TO A FAMILY THAT WELL LOVE HIM OR HER.