YOU PEOPLE ARE SUCH HIPOCRITS!!!!!!! ok i may not be able to spell it BUT YOU ALL KNOW WHAT I MENT! I am 6 months pregnant with twins and am thinking about the same thing! in a few hrs I will be homeless, and have no where to go but to the street, jail (for sleeping there) or back to an abusive x husband, and I have preclampsia, and high blood sugar, I can't afford the medications for either, and have already had a Massive seizure because of the blood presure. The delivery, I'm told could end my life if the next seizure doesn't do it. You tell me what future do you see for the boys that I am carring??? At the moment I live in a very small town, where there is no shelter, no real means of help in anyway, I have not ate in 2 days now and have no family or friends I am able to turn to. So you tell me.....are you going to help me? send me some money for food? send me the bus fare to go some where there is a shelter? or give me a place to live?
I am a mother of two. I have a four year old son, and a two year old daughter. I am twenty four years old. I am now pregnant once again. I have not been to my doctor yet, so I am not sure how far along I am, but I'm far enough along to have lots of morning sickness! I am not going to lie because I to, have once considered an abortion with my second child. I am so glad that I changed my mind! She is the most joyful part of my life! I would have been missing out on a beautiful, awesome little girl, with such a bubbly and loving personality! She is only two, but she has a unique personality, and loves everyone around her!! I cannot believe that I ever even considered such a heinous act! I am not judging anyone who has had an abortion. I just wish to share my experience. Anyway, I realized my only reason for even considering an abortion, was because of my own selfish acts. I had been unfaithful to my husband, and we were not sure if it was my husbands child, or the other mans child. I was only about two months along when I was at the doctors, and I heard my baby's heart beat. As small as he/she was, because at that time I did not know the sex of my child, I could simply not go through with it once I realized this baby, my baby, has a heart beat! I am sorry, but anyone who could even still consider an abortion after realizing that it does in fact, have a heart beat, is disgusting! I do not see how any mother could willingly put her child in harms way. Anyway, at six months! SIX MONTHS??!!! Are you kidding me? Your baby is fully formed, has hair, resembles your characteristics, and moves inside of you!! How can you not feel that precious baby kicking you and moving around?!! I know I sure as hell felt my baby kicking me, long before I was six months pregnant!!! I saw both my babies on the ultra sound, just rolling around inside of me, both had very strong heart beats, and had a personality all their own! Now, how any mother can kill their child after all of that, is a murderer!!!!!! Disgusting! Despicable!!! Sorry, maybe I have lost my temper a little, but somebody has to speak up for these precious babies, who are being painfully ripped out of their mothers wombs, and thrown into the trash like garbage! You might as well kill it as soon as it is born!!! It's the same damn thing!!!!! Your baby did not ask to be born. You made your mistakes. Live with them! There is always a loving family out there that wants a baby so bad and is not able to. You don't have to be a mother, but you can be human enough to give your child a good life with another family who wants to give your child a loving home. I just don't see how any human being, could rip a fully formed baby right out of them, and throw it in the trash like it is nothing. A new born baby! In the freaking trash!!! Murdered in the most painful way!!! You think it is painful for the mother! Imagine the pain your very own child is experiencing while you allow another person to murder your child while inside of you! Of course you are going to have complications! You just had a human being dead inside of you!!! I think every woman that is coward enough to make such a selfish decision, only thinking of themselves and not anyone else, should have to face what they have done, and look at their child, and dispose of the body themselves! Maybe then, women will wake up and have a much lower abortion rate! If anyone does not have remorse after seeing such a thing, is not human at all!!! Not to mention, how many father's actually want their child, and don't get to take care of their child, because the mother is too damn selfish and heartless, to allow their baby's father to take full responsibility after he or she is born. It's not like the mother would have to lift her finger to do anything! I believe that if the father is ready and willing to take on the responsibility and want their child, they should have a say. There are good father's out there ladies!!! Also, why is it, that when a pregnant woman is assaulted or murdered, the attacker is charged as though he has harmed two individuals? Because the baby is a human! It shouldn't be that you can murder your child, and it be "OK" according to the law. If a woman wants her baby and is murdered, her attacker is charged with two counts of murder, and the other women, is just as far along as women who choose to go to a clinic, and murder their child!!!!! OH! So it's murder by choice these days, ha??!!! Enough Said! You know you are in the wrong when you murder your very own child! Just look up the meaning of abortion!! It plainly says right there, abortion is the termination of a pregnancy, by the removal or expulsion of a fetus or embryo from the uterus, resulting in or caused by it's DEATH. If getting an elective abortion is really not murder, then why is it's death, in the very definition of abortion!!!!!
Do what's best for you cause no one can't tell you what to do. I know how you feel, cause at 6 months I sometimes wish i had done an abortion earlier on cause of all the stress and stuff a baby brings. However, at 6 months you should have it and give it up for adoption. %-)
Why would she come back when you all called her a murderer? Or would be murderer, at least?
Number one -- none of you have any idea what her circumstances are. And yes, there are circumstances that more than "justify" an abortion at 6 months.
Number two -- a woman is not selfish because she doesn't feel like being an incubator for infertile women. It is, however, rather selfish to be trolling for babies on a thread where a woman is clearly going through a challenging and probably painful situation and looking for advice and information.
Adoption is no simple matter. You don't just "give it up for adoption," and that's that. There are serious, lifelong, psychological implications for the woman and child. Hard to care, I suppose, when you just want her baby.
Three -- all killing is not murder. To be murder, something must be illegal. If there is a state where she can legally obtain an abortion, it isn't murder, plain and simple.
Not one person asked if her life was in danger. Or WHY she might need an abortion at 6 months. Maybe you should get more information before you start judging someone next time.
Number one -- none of you have any idea what her circumstances are. And yes, there are circumstances that more than "justify" an abortion at 6 months.
Number two -- a woman is not selfish because she doesn't feel like being an incubator for infertile women. It is, however, rather selfish to be trolling for babies on a thread where a woman is clearly going through a challenging and probably painful situation and looking for advice and information.
Adoption is no simple matter. You don't just "give it up for adoption," and that's that. There are serious, lifelong, psychological implications for the woman and child. Hard to care, I suppose, when you just want her baby.
Three -- all killing is not murder. To be murder, something must be illegal. If there is a state where she can legally obtain an abortion, it isn't murder, plain and simple.
Not one person asked if her life was in danger. Or WHY she might need an abortion at 6 months. Maybe you should get more information before you start judging someone next time.
Abortion has been around since the beginning of time, as has infanticide. Contrary to what someone above was saying, abortion is not necessarily unnatural (this is in response to "Oh! How can a mother kill her fetus?!). Life is cruel, and there are painful choices that have to be made. My bet is that those who don't understand the need for abortion on here simply haven't had to encounter those choices.
And what's f*****g hilarious, to this same poster, is you never once asked if this woman might die if she carried the pregnancy! So typical.
And to another poster -- the "if you are mature enough to get pregnant, you're mature enough to deal with the consequences." Uh, no, not really. Girls can get pregnant at 11. Sometimes younger. You think they are mature enough? Maturity is psychological; fertility is purely physical. Furthermore, abortion IS dealing with the consequences. Is it YOUR body that's going to go through the trauma, ***edited by moderator*** ** inappropriate posting**
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This woman is just as valuable as any fetus. I'd venture to say more. And it's HER BODY. I don't care how developed something is, I CHOOSE WHAT HAPPENS IN MY BODY. PERIOD. All you ***edited by moderator*** ** inappropriate posting**
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need to worry about your own reproductive organs and leave this woman alone.
And what's f*****g hilarious, to this same poster, is you never once asked if this woman might die if she carried the pregnancy! So typical.
And to another poster -- the "if you are mature enough to get pregnant, you're mature enough to deal with the consequences." Uh, no, not really. Girls can get pregnant at 11. Sometimes younger. You think they are mature enough? Maturity is psychological; fertility is purely physical. Furthermore, abortion IS dealing with the consequences. Is it YOUR body that's going to go through the trauma, ***edited by moderator*** ** inappropriate posting**
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This woman is just as valuable as any fetus. I'd venture to say more. And it's HER BODY. I don't care how developed something is, I CHOOSE WHAT HAPPENS IN MY BODY. PERIOD. All you ***edited by moderator*** ** inappropriate posting**
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need to worry about your own reproductive organs and leave this woman alone.
U ppl r mean that's her decision only God can judge
having an abortion the moment the baby is conceieved is murder...who are we to shed blood and take a life
Honestly, I understand her wanting to do it.
It's not anyone else's right to tell her if she should or not.
She wants to know if it is possible. And yes I understand this was 6 years ago but the case still stands.
I am personally at possibly 4 to 5 months in a pregnancy.
I personally cannot have it because 1. I have serious economical issues where my husband and I can hardly support ourselves let alone another human and 2. I have hereditary diseases that would be passed on and seriously affect this child's life.
I would have had an abortion earlier but I was extremely unaware that I was even pregnant (I blame my awfully random period for this one).
My husband and I both know and have accepted that we cannot support a child and with my history of health, putting the child through that and then putting them up for adoption so that a family could get their hopes up, spend all their life money on them only to watch them die in a few years...
My husband and I both know and have accepted that we cannot support a child and with my history of health, putting the child through that and then putting them up for adoption so that a family could get their hopes up, spend all their life money on them only to watch them die in a few years...
Back to the actual topic, in case anyone is actually wondering this, yes you can still have an abortion BUT it is very rare in many states to allow it. If they do, it's usually only for medical reasons.
You tell 'em, sweety.
Hope life has been better to you since this post.
Hope life has been better to you since this post.
It's the mothers choise if they wanna have an abortion or not. Coming for someone who was raped twice and got an abortion cause I didn't think I could live with the fact that the baby belonged to someone who did such a horrible thing to me. It was my choise. Just like its any other mothers choise. Don't judge other on the actions they go apoun. Leave them alone. It's not your body. It's theirs!!!
where will i find abortion clinic im here in manila
how will i find clinic im here in philippines im in manila
wow.... it is a tough situation when you just have no options in life due to financial reasons...And to have money years later and look back upon those hard times and think how bad you would love to support the child now and be apart of a loving; successful family, is devastating to know that it was all taken away and literally thrown away all because of a thing called money....some paper that our superiors have made up from absolutely nothing at the start... all devised as a test run, to show civilian life that they must contribute to society in order to have the material possessions you cannot survive without, and to try and show all that their dreams will fall short of even starting if you fail to force yourself to be a very hard working member of society and be compliant of all your c ountry's methods of being swamped with cash...... and with many types of punishments that exist, having you to force yourself to end your unborn child's life being one of the thousands of rash consequences for not having a brain; higher than the ones who created society as you see it today... the reality we are stuck in as adults is very complex. a type of complexion that almost seems to exceed our life boundaries... technologically overwhelming, without a god given gift, allowing our brains to comprehend what the world is doing in a never pausing time (Like; hey! wait-up i've just started learning some of this algorithmic type creation, and already; a whole new type of coding has begun, we are left stumped and not knowing were to begin..... we all need training in life...) So much of life is kept secret by the top dogs... the rich get richer
Yes you can do generally same as normal delivery, doctors will give you medicine to do normal delivery
not everyone wants a baby I think I might be pregnant I am 20 something a college student I am not ready I dont wnat it abortions help me in my confused time.. I mean people who cant have a baby need to get over the fact most of you have money so be thankful u have money n can live a good life a kid will only take from ya life ..you have no time to do anything u want to do or handle life the way u planned noo thank you I am trying to do it my self if i can I do not want a kid at this time im not ready.. they should do it up to 8 months PRO CHOICE ALL THE WAY!