abortion, coping after an abortion,

i had an abortion about 2 months ago and I still have gotten over it.. I feel empty and the guy who would've been the father my ex is never there emotionally for me. I sometimes feel its not normal for me to still be grieving over this. I don't know what to do to get over this.

The only advice i can give is to seek God. He's the only one who can completely heal you. Seek him with all your heart. You see many don't know thatdemons are behind abortions its not a work of God. So its up to you to get rid if those demons who have keept you in bondage. Seek God.

You are not going to get over it, you never will but it does get easier with time. I had an abortion a year and a half ago and all though i have come to terms with my decision i still resent myself and feel enormous guilt. These are to be expected but soon you will come to terms with the decision you made and can start being happy again but it takes time. You cant speed up the grieving process you must go through it you cant not feel anything after what was done but you do learn from it. I have learnt to listen to my heart instead of my head and i make the decisions in my life not based on whats better for other people but what is best foe me. Everything happened for a reason, it might be a life lesson or it might be because baby wasn't ready to come yet (i am a very spiritual person and believe that my baby is going to come back when it is ready). You have to hit rock bottom to go up and it sounds like you have so only way now is to heal and move foward. much love

I had a aborton 23 year ago, After seeing the ultra sound and the lady told me that my HCG was high, I changed my mind thinking it was twins, I followed the lady down the hall, thinking I would go get my cloths and leave, i ended up stuck in a room waiting, While waiting for someone to come to tell them that i wanted to talk to my ex at the time, because i changed my mind. But the lady at the abortion clinic would not let me talk to my ex at the time.. unless I took a pill first, out of frustrasion i took it so i could leave, but she lied to me and i never got to talk to him until they let him in the room as my hands were strapped down, and they had to hold me down, as i screamed with pain to stop. Anyway.. I had forgotten the whole deal. Until I came across my old abortion paper. I did not know this at the time, looking back at my sons birthdate, I was carring him at the time of the adortion, I guess maybe twins. I will never know . It Just sickns me :( Its hard enough going through a adoration, but its even harder when you don't want to have the abortion.. Anyway the lady at the abortion clinic told me it was to late because i already took the pill. I am not sure what that pill was. but I had a mashine suction abortion.

I'm over a year late for this but if you still use this, please please private message me sweetie.