Abortion Is Always Wrong - Read This And Become Enlightned

Abortion is a choice. Abortion is not always wrong. Using abortion for a method of birth control is wrong, but abortion for purposes such as a mom being a crack addict and not wanting a baby to be born on crack, or not being able to take care of the baby because all her money goes to drugs, and shes high all the time, reasons such as rape, reasons such as being too young, and not being responsible enough, not having a job or any money because too young and not able to take care of the child...etc etc. There are many reasons for an abortion. Everyone has different reasons and you have no right to judge them. I don't think of abortion as killing an innocent child. It isn't even a child yet by the time you abort it..It hasn't even taken a breath of air. It hasn't even opened it's eyes...I mean...Cmon...Do you think it's better to have a baby you can't take care of, and have it die at 3 years old, after it breathed..lived..experienced things..or would you rather have someone who can't take care of it get rid of it when it doesn't even have organs yet? Just my opinion.

Hi guys

i believe each and everyone of us is entitled with our own opinion.

You don't have to judge those people who had had abortion. Besides its their decision not ours :-)

In making decisions like this, try to think of it a million times so that you won't regret it at the end...that's all

thanks ;-)

My opinion:
Right times to get obortions
After rape
After incest
Known deformities
Cannot support self/child

Wrong times
Doesn't want to deal with a kid
Inflicts with religion/beliefs

I defendtly think an obortion is ok.
I'm a guy, and if you think having an obortion is wrong,
then eating anything that was once alive is wrong too.

I think abortion should be looked at on a case by case basis.There are some women who use it as birth control or have one after the other.There are also lots of women who have an abortion and get a reality check about having unprotected sex and take the neccesary steps to insure it never happens again.NO ONE HAS THE RIGHT TO JUDGE ANOTHER PERSON period.For those who say adoption is always better than abortion must not be too familiar with the way it works.My sister got pregnant at 16 and because we come from a catholic family was forced (not literally)to give the baby up for adoption.The agency assured her that the baby would go to "loving parents" who could otherwise not have a baby.It was a very hard decision and everyone put her down and called her every name in the book for it.Two years later the baby was removed from the home of the "loving parents" for child abuse.She was never informed and only found out years later after the child was sent in and out of foster homes.Now the child is ten years old and has never been with the same family for more than a year.My sister is in the middle of a long EXPENSIVE court battle to get her parental rights back.Who knows what the outcome will be but either way this child has already suffered long term emotional and physical damage.Adoption is not always the happy ending people make it out to be.

In the wild if a mother can't support her young she eats them. So perhaps you'd prefer if women carry their babies to term and then do what is "natural"???

To the person who wrote this, allow me to comment:

"How do you know the future of that child, how do you know what kind of LIFE that he or she might have?"

Well I would say that's where the statement "better safe than sorry" comes in. You don't KNOW but you are taking a chance that your life and your future child's life may be in ruins. Furthermore, if you want to bring God into this, then during an abortion the child's soul goes straight back to God, as it makes no sense whatsoever for it to go anywhere else...where it can enjoy an eternity of no suffering, pain and have extreme happiness. What could be better than that? I bet some people stuck on this judgemental, hateful, confusing, limiting, poverty and war stricken planet wish they had a free ticket into heaven. On the other end of the spectrum how do you know God doesnt provide the soul with a new body to be reborn in? Either way he wouldnt let anything bad happen to an innocent soul, so in an unplanned pregnancy, things may be better for everyone involved, mother and unborn body's spirit. If my mom would have aborted me I seriously would not care...I would have been saved a facial abnormality, a house fire, a daily skin disease, a car accident, and other life struggles...and be with God. But no God decided, I needed to come here to learn certain lessons in this life, I believe thats why he made life so hard. If an abortion was not meant to happen, God would have done something to prevent it. Because followers of your religion believe he knew every single thing that would happen and what we would choose before we were born. So if someone had a fate of being aborted, he already knew about that and had a plan of a future for the aborted soul, with God or in another life.


"That's right you don't nor does anyone else, we are not GOD. We don't know that childs future. If you abort, that child has no chance whatsoever because there is no child."

Well if there IS no child then....who cares. I mean seriously, who cares....do you realize that without abortion over 6 million more people would be on the planet every year...and that the planet will not hold that many people. So weather they were going to be a doctor, sales clerk, whatever...none of us would have the chance to achieve our goals and full potential with an overpopulated, overloaded, and resource deprived planet. And there still is that childs soul...maybe its just not the right time for it to enter earth yet. Why would God do this? Perhaps he makes unplanned pregnancies happen to even careful women to teach them or someone involved important lessons about life.

"Mabye he or she grows up to be a computer tech, a teacher, a nurse, you don't know.Maybe he or she has 3 children of their own, that would make you a grandmother, wow could you imagine, what's better then that, isn't that what life is supposed to be all about, Love and family???? But you have killed the chance of that ever happening."

How has anyone killed the chance of this ever happening? You can still have a family in the future. Who says life is all about love and family? Of course as inhabitants of this planet we all need to love one another. But some people are not family oriented. Some are not born with maternal or paternal instincts. Some people do not ever wish to have children. You say a women who had an abortion will never know what could have been....but what if a women had a child and never achieves not even one of her lifes goals, not only that, but had slight resentment toward her child and the child did not grow up in a way the mother would have liked? Dont you think some mothers have asked, "what if I would have had an abortion and send the spirit on its way? Maybe we wouldnt be broke and sleep deprived right now..." You seriously never know but you could ask this about any decision in life, but it is my belief that God knows we are all flawed humans and that whatever decision we chose to make, we did it out of love believing we did the right thing....even if we are right or wrong, we are only human not perfect.

Now I have only read 1 page of this topic, and felt as though I had to respond. I myself, have never believed in abortion. Mainly because all the cases I had heard of was people who just did not want to have the responsibility in raising that child and/or ruining their figures. Now I recently have had an abortion. And it wasn't just because I was thinking of myself, I wasn't at all. I had a miscarriage after 2 years of unprotected sex with my lifetime partner. A month later I got pregnant with my beautiful now 8 month old son. I had a very complicated pregnancy where they were waiting for me to abort naturally. They said that if I could carry until he was 24 weeks, they would take him then. I was on bed-rest my entire pregnancy, had bleeding throughout most of my pregnancy and was terrified I would lose him. I was 9 days overdue. Emergency c-section and they cut an artery. He was born over 8 lbs and is still quite a big boy. When he was about 4-4 1/2 months, I discovered I was pregnant. It took me about 3 weeks to weigh the pros and cons, and I decided to abort. We were on welfare for our medical and our food, and were barely scraping by as it was. No vehicle, no nothing. And I thought about my son. Do I want to raise him in a life where he's left wanting, or do I want to be able to give my son all that he needs and not have a hard life? I also did not want to share myself with another baby. I was still getting to know my son. It was a hard decision, but I do not regret it. I was thinking about the family I already have and did not want to bring a baby into this world where my partner and I would regret....and who knows maybe grow to resent him/her for tough times. That would not be fair to that baby. I did consider adoption....but as hard of a pregnancy as I had and the outcome for an easy one did not look good. And if you have never carried a child, then you would not know the aching feeling you get to meet and hug your child....how could you give it up after? I certainly would not be able to. I feel what I did was right in my situation and nobody can ever sway me from that decision. So if you feel as though you despise me, then I'm sorry....but what's done is done.

what do you think adoption agencies are for? are they there just to sit there and laugh when babies die?! no i don't think do. they are there so you don't KILL a baby when it didn't do anything to you. Atleast you got to see the world!

Thank you for sharing Mysteria! NO, I do not despise you, anyone that would must seriously be coldhearted.

I AM 100% PRO CHOICE.

abortion is good

So to all that think abortion is morally wrong...then you have never had to deal with the pain of loosing anything. Do you really think that deciding to have an abortion is an easy thing to make? Maybe for some women it is, but for me it wasn't. I feel like I had no choice. I was pregnant before and had a daughter that was extremely premature. She lived for six days and then I had to bury her. That was the hardest experiance I ever had to go through in my life. Then I got pregnant again. I had a healthy baby girl. I also had to go through five months of bedrest and had to have a stitch put in my cervix. She still came early, but was healthy. It was a horrible pregnancy for me. Wondering if she was going to be okay. The mental and physical...no way I Could never do it again. Not knowing if my child was going to live or die. Never again. There is no way mentally or physically my body could ever handle having another child. So I planned on no more children. I was on the pill. I took the pill everyday and when I was supposed to.
Well come to find out in August. I was pregnant. Oh my god. I couldn't believe this. My husband now...I am divorced and remarried....he wasn't there through the first two. Kind of was we were friends for a long time. Anyway..another hard decision in my life...contemplating the fact that I lost a daughter how can I just go and kill one. Believe me I didn't want to do it..but from what doctors have told me before I have problems keeping babies in so not suggested to try again. It was a decision we made together. It is our child so we both have a say. So we went to go have the abortion. The most horrible experiance of my life. One of the most painful. Come to find out I was going to lose the baby anyway. I was already dilated to 6 at 5 1/2 weeks pregnant. So I just can't have them. But I live with that everyday. Knowing for one what I did. Knowing that that child was made with love no matter what and was a part of us together. Bothers me...But the best decision for me.
So don't act like it's just an easy decision to make and that it's just done and over with after it's all done. At least not for me. I can't even talk about it with anyone except my husband because there are so many people that don't think of different situations. So maybe before you open your mouth and say it's just completely wrong why don't you try thinking that maybe there is a medical reason for it and that the woman is having a very hard time dealing with it just as much as you are. Not a choice many of us want to make but sometimes have to.
I don't plan on having anymore children. In fact I had some birth control put in that is 99% effective. It lasts for 5 years and is more effective than getting your tubes tied. So I am not a careless person. I wasn't careless before so I didnt use this as a form of birth control. I don't think that most people do. Just please..start thinking about different situations before you want to judge someone for what they did. Remember everyone has a choice and we should respect other peoples choices.

your an id**t. u must be so narrow minded. how would u feel if u were in that position. for gods sake, and its not killing ' The unlawful killing of one human by another, especially with premeditated malice.' i think u will find that that is a definition of murder. And it is not done with malice. it is done for the good of the future child and the mother. number one abortion is not unlawful and number two 'The unborn young of a viviparous vertebrate having a basic structural resemblance to the adult animal. that is the definition of a fetus and if murder is killing a human and a fetus only resembles a human then i think u will find its not killing. how can you be so narrow minded. u let the human race down

I have mixed feelings about abortion, only in some cases I believe it is okay & then in some I feel like people are being CARELESS, and just repeating their actions over and OVER again not learning from ANYTHING. As much as women are on here talking about how hard of a decision it is to make, and how much greif you may live after it.. some women are on here talking about how they've had THREE ABORTIONS and are continuing to have sex. What sense does that make ? REALLY? & Then say they are willing to have another one if they do become pregnant again. Let's quit being ignorant, if you could not take care of the baby in the first place why continue to have unprotected sex and continuously kill these innocent children. How do we know , they could have the cure for cancer! Let's start being smart about our decisions. If you are financially unstable, and have an abortion. Don't keep having unprotected sex and finding out your pregnant over and over and keep making that same tripped to the CLINIC!!

It's not a debate forum.

Don't want an abortion? Don't have one but please spare the rest of us your opinions as, frankly, it's none of your damn business what other people do as long as it's within the bounds of the law.

Oh and if you wish to harm other people because you don't agree with their legal decisions then perhaps you should seek psychiatric help?

in my case i got pregnant that i wish upon no other woman. i was raped and i still had my baby because it is not the child's fault that it was concieved. i put my baby up for adoption and now a couple who was not able to start a family is now happy and that brings so much joy to me knowing that. abortion cannot erase the fact that i was raped so why should i bear more pain on my shoulder and MURDER yes murder and unborn child. i honestly hate female protesters marching around saying "it's my body:it's my choice" well i'm glad your mother gave you life so you could choose but why not do the same give your child the ability to choose.