I've been married for 12 years and my husband is amazing in pleasing me. But I can't stop thinking about sex. I find myself wanting more sex now in my mid 30's. Is this normal? It excites me to see pictures of sexy women but i can honsestly say that I am not into women. The Idea of touching another women grosses me out . I wake up thinking about sex go to sleep thinking about it. I have considered buying sex toys and I have started to masterbate in the shower for a week now. Oh and i forgot to mention my husband has turned me down about 5 times in the last 3 months. Does this happen to anyone else? What is going on with me? I would appreciate any advise, comments, or just what you think.
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The reason you get turned on when you see naked women isn't because you're attracted to women. It has to do with you being able to relate to the woman. For instance, you're watching a movie and there's a sex scene and you get turned on by the naked woman because you can relate to the feelings, sensations, etc... that she's going through.
Many reasons why you're husband turned it down. He could be tired or just not in the mood... he's human, it happens.
As for thinking about sex all the time, it will pass if you start focusing less on sex and MORE on other stuff. That's all there is to it. Put your passion in something you really enjoy other than sex.