I'm a 22 yr old female and yesterday I all of a sudden got this overpowering urge to have sex, masturbate, whatever. There was nothing really to provoke it, I was folding laundry for a family that I nanny. The clothes were the husband/dad's and although I'm not attracted to him at all, nor would I ever do anything with a married man, but I had a sex dream the night before about him...only it wasn't really him in the dream if you know what I mean. He does pay a lot more attention to me than he ever does to his wife and talks to me waay more than he talks to her (like when I'm over at their house and both the parents are home). It does make me feel a tiny bit uncomfortable/weird but I never have been and still am not attracted to him. Anyways as I was folding his laundry (which I have done many times before without any urges) I became uncomfortably turned on. I got off work shortly after that and as I as driving, the urge to in some way stimulate myself "down there" became unbearable and I felt like i HAD to touch myself like I couldn't take it. So I masturbated for at least 20 min while driving and another 10 min once I got to my next destination. I wasn't able to cum, but I never have before either. About an hour later I was pretty turned on again and masterbated with a dildo and vibrator (still never climaxed). Today I hadn't had any urges until I started typing this and got extremely turned on again. Like I feel like I would have sex with any guy that walked by I'm so turned on. I dont masterbate or touch myself often at all (not because I'm against it but just because I dont really get the urge to very often).
This extreme turned on-ness has happened only once about a year ago and I ended up making some bad choices sexually and who I sought out to sleep with. It last for a couple weeks and then went away. It makes me feel uncomfortable and worrieD. I don't know if something is wrong and I'm too embarrassed to actually talk with anyone about it :( Please help :/ and thank you in advance (sorry so long)
Well first of all do u have sex often if not then thats the problem because u dont have sex often your body wants sex so it turns it self on without you wanting to and it makes u do stuff like masturbate youself with a dildo, what i recommend is to have more sex often or to maturbate more often for your body can calm down also touch yourself even if your not turned on or stuff like that for you can push your body to the limits were its fine. also it would help also if u get a sex partner and make him or her make you cum because when you cum ur body feels relaxed and relieved so it wouldnt have thos outbursted it does. also a 8======D~ will work.
I understand your concern, and I will offer some suggestions and things to consider.
I think that the 'male laundry' event triggered something from your past. You need to go back to what happened a year ago, and think about what led to that situation. Also consider the 'bad choices' you made and why. You can't just 'park' the wrong things, you have to deal with them. Recognise each wrong event and aspect individually, and condemn each one, and determine not to repeat it. Consider what led to the happenings, and learn from them, so that you can observe when the problem is likely to arise again and take corrective action.
It may also be that there has been some irritation to your pudendal nerve which could give rise to sexual feeling when otherwise there might have been none.
Also you say "I dont masterbate or touch myself often at all" but you have a dildo and a vibrator. Think about why you have these if you don't masturbate much.
I hope this helps as a start.
It is certainly not true that if you don't have sex often your body wants it. It does not usually just turn itself on unprompted unless you have a particular problem like Persistent Sexual Arousal Syndrome. Pursuing sex as suggested would only exacerbate the problem.