Hey, I've recently got tired of masterbuating the ole fashion way. So I've heard that Anal masterbuating is good. I want to try it but I'm scared.
1. Is it normal, and safe, for a Guy?
2. I'm not gay, but sometime I imagine having sex with boys, is this normal?
3. Any good object around house I can stick, you know, up there?
I'M A GUY
1. Is it normal, and safe, for a Guy?
2. I'm not gay, but sometime I imagine having sex with boys, is this normal?
3. Any good object around house I can stick, you know, up there?
I'M A GUY
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Hey! Dunno how much help I'll be, but here's my bit...
-Can't comment on the safe bit, as I'm sure there are people out there who will argue both ways.
-As for normal? Please, do define 'normal'. I don't think there IS a normal.
-I've only used my fingers so far, since I'm a bit wary of using stuff from around the house... I've heard horror stories of things literally being 'sucked' up there! >__<
But otherwise just some lube and your fingers or, as I once did, vaseline to use as lubricant, as its waaaay better with lube.
I'm a girl, but don't let that dissuade you! Guys do have their prostate, which reportedly feels very good when stimulated! But you might need a dildo or something for that... I don't know!
Have fun!
-Can't comment on the safe bit, as I'm sure there are people out there who will argue both ways.
-As for normal? Please, do define 'normal'. I don't think there IS a normal.
-I've only used my fingers so far, since I'm a bit wary of using stuff from around the house... I've heard horror stories of things literally being 'sucked' up there! >__<
But otherwise just some lube and your fingers or, as I once did, vaseline to use as lubricant, as its waaaay better with lube.
I'm a girl, but don't let that dissuade you! Guys do have their prostate, which reportedly feels very good when stimulated! But you might need a dildo or something for that... I don't know!
Have fun!
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Molly is right there is no normal when it comes to these subjects. It's fine to have sexual fantasies about same sexes even if your not gay. Most people do even if they wont admit it. A fantasy is just that a fantasy its created by the deeper parts of the mind and is not controled with concious thought so its not as if it will always be something you want. Yes it is fine to want to stick things up your rear end. Some guys like that and they are straight. Infact some say its a better turn on than most. Doing wierd things like that can have an amazing effect on orgasms so I hear. For objects try longer objects so theres no fear of sucking it up. (your anus only goes in so far its not like you can stick a candle all the way in.) Always use a lubricant as some areas of the body tend to become dry. And no, as long as you use a water-based lubricant and dont stick something that is made of a toxic material in there is no danger. Your skin will only rip if you do not use a lubricant or try to put something huge in like a watermelon.... Please dont be stupid.
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I do not wish to contradict or criticize previous writers. However, from 40 years of experience with anal masturbation by myself and having a gf do it to me, I can say it is very safe. Having anal stimulation in it of itself will not make you gay. Typically nature has that influence. There are precautions. Always clean the sex toys that you use before and after. Always use lots of water based lubrication in your anus, rectum, and on the sex toy. Absolutely never use a product called "Analeze" to "deaden" the anal tissue so that you feel no pain. Pain is your best indicator for stopping. Never use a dildo/vibrator that does not have a beveled end or stop at the opposite end from the "head." This will prevent the toy from getting lost in your rectum requiring a trip to the ER. After cleanliness and lubrication the third rule is patience: never rush anal sex or masturbation. Over time you may develop the skill to have a prostate orgasm where you do not have to stimulate your penis. These orgasms are mind bending!!
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