Anal Rape

My exboyfiend had anelsex with me once, and i told him to stop but he didnt and came inside my anel.
My friends said that i didnt enjoy it and that it was rape, and they were right because i felt like i had been raped even though he told me he loved me but then hurt me with the anel without stopping.

I went to the police and now he is in jail for the rape and i am sad, but happy becauze my new boyfriend doesnt want the anel with me :)

Some women love anal sex, and some others hate it, it just varies from woman to woman 

So then I assume you don't ever perform oral sex it even hug and kiss because gay people do those things too. If you want to put it in a girls butt its not gay if you want a girl to put something in your butt as a guy that is not gay. Attraction to a member of the same sex is gay an act itself is not gay.

So its abuse regardless of what the girl thinks about it? So if a girl loves it then she's just allowing herself to be abused because she likes something. You should really read a book and get any kind of education so you don't sound so foolish. Think don't just write stuff because your ex-husband loved it and now does it with his new wife!

Well I'm a woman and I love anal sex....I first got turned on it by watching anal porn...seeing guys lick and insert their fingers into girls arses really helped me to see it for what it is - an erotic sensual act. My husband often inserts a finger into my ass when he s f*****g me hard and it makes for an amazing orgasm, being fingered in th ass is hot too...but everyone is different...

I have read about. Anal sex. It says your penis could stimulate the G-Spot because the. Linening. Between the vagina and anus is very thin! She should be able to climax! U need to penetrate deep to achive that!

@ Sola Thank you so much for your comment it is the truth and the only truth people need to stop alienating things that they do not understand or other wise are ashamed that they would try or do themselves. I for one am not gay and I hold no anger to anyone that is I love all as we are people we should be for one another and my sexuality is vast I love the female body and I will proudly admit that I have all forms of sex with my female partner and I can tell you with all honesty that they have all enjoyed the sex that we have had anal included ^_^ besides when your willing to make things slippery all things are possible... it's just rude not to get a woman in the mood a kiss on the lips and a kiss on the (lips) :)

I, as a women, absolutely LOVE anal sex. Of course foreplay and lube are needed for me to really enjoy it.... but there is nothing "gsy" about anal... it it is something enjoyed by both men and women all over the world. Unless she repeatedly asked you too stop and you forcefully continued on, this is NOt rape by any standard. the fact any women would consider that rape is ridiculous. If you are interested in having a better sex life, especially with anal involved, go find a normal women that isn't a prude and is open to trying new things and exploring your sex life, both to enhance your pleasure and hers :]

Was he already inside you, anally, when you told him to stop? If he was, he didn't rape you -- you just felt like you were no longer enjoying it, and he came. I think you put another person in jail because you changed your mind after the fact. If you didn't tell him "no" when he first began to enter you, you are a female sexist. He may have loved you before, but I'll bet he doesn't now, now you've s+++++d him! He will go through life marked as a predator, and from what I gather, he's not. Sorry, but I think might want to consider somehow retracting to have his record expunged.

I couldn't agree more. that isn't rape, I still have a hard time believing it happened at all, kind of sounds like a made up story just to have something to say

I think your find in the eye of the law that it is still classed as rape if she says ok but then changes her mind once started and says stop whether it be anal or vaginal sex!

I am a woman who hates anal sex, however I do not believe it is fair to call it rape. Having said this I have been forced or coerced to have anal sex on multiple occasions and always hated the experience. Again, I think calling it rape detracts from the gravity of the real rapes that occur, but it is definately something very bad and unpleasant.

In your case you can say no and that is the end of your issue it is not the same for rape victims.

Wow, everybody is reading a lot of literal meaning from some guys typed version of what his girlfriend said. She didn't accuse him of raping her, and she likely wasn't trying to give him a legal definition.
She said something along the lines that to her it felt like rape, or next time it would be rape because she does not consent to do it again.
Maybe she's been raped, and found the two experiences disturbing in some similar ways, or maybe she's guessing what being raped is like. It doesn't matter; she was trying to tell him how she felt. You can't know how she felt.
If I tell you that having the dentist put his fingers in my mouth feels like rape, telling me that isn't rape is kind of pointless, because you don't know how I react, and I can't control how I react emotionally. Now, if I tell you I'm calling the police because the dentist did his job, then that would be a great time to remind me of the legal definition of rape.
This case sounds to me like she felt negative emotions and pain, and she is trying to help him understand. Or maybe she was saying if he did it again she would feel used because she's telling him now that she doesn't want it.
Either way, the important advice here is that he needs to respect her wishes, and if he "has" to have something sexual she isn't willing to do, then he needs to decide if they are a compatible couple. It would be no different if she was rabidly demanding to insert a dildo in his butt, and he absolutely doesn't want her to.