Hi!
So, I'm hoping this is a good forum to ask my questions regarding prostate orgasms. Some quick background facts. 26 year old male mostly gay guy enjoying anal play, which I'm quite good at. Capable of getting screwed by large penises and using big toys for some deep anal playing. Tried my hand at fisting, however I'm still a beginner in this area so it's still very hard to accomplish I find.
Right, so. I mostly got a few questions about what the hell is happening to my body. Granted I am looking for the incredible prostate orgasm. During my quest for this, and just in general during a lot of solo anal play, I have found myself experiencing various types of scenarious that I have no clue about. Mainly, how my body is reacting and what is actually happening.
Scenario 1. During some deep anal play with toys, most of the time anal beads, that slip past the first area in my rectum into the next and back again. When I sometimes pull stuff back into the first area of the recum or my dildo continously slips between when f*****g I get contractions. Contractions that lead me to what I think is urination. Is the contractions of my rectum making me urinate? The sensation is enjoyable, but it's definitely not as good as a normal orgasm like when jacking off. The whole thing is making my rectum and stomach contract and tense up, and I shoot a stream of pee. Or so I believe. Is this what's happening?
Scenario 2. Sometimes when I use dildos and specifically f**k myself over my prostate I can shoot small streams of what I believe is precum. The sensation is not anything special in itself. My prostate is definitely enlarged or swollen from stimulation, and there is a sensation of needing to pee on occasion. It's definitely not urine, it's completely transparent, doesn't smell nor taste like urine. Is it possible to sort of "milk" precum? It's defintely not semen either, for that matter. Is it possible for this to happen without having an prostate orgasm? Most of the times when this has happened I haven't had an erection if that matters.
What is a prostate orgasm supposed to feel like? I know what a prostate assisted normal jack off orgasm feels like. Isn't it supposed to be better than that? Like, epicly better? I've read stories about people shaking and having several in rows making them feel more alive than ever, etc.
Am I doing something wrong? Maybe not relaxing or giving into it properly?
I'm grateful for any serious replies! Also, I apologise for grammar errors or bad vocabulary. Not a native speaker, but I have tried my best. Please ask if something is unclear.
/Guy very confused about his body.
You can definitely experience ejaculation, the release of sperm and other seminal fluids, through prostate stimulation or massage. That's what is happening to you, from the sounds of it. Here's a fun fact for you — cows are often artificially inseminated, and the farmers get the sperm samples by stimulating the bull's prostate in something called eletroejaculation. In other words, prostate stimulation can definitely cause ejaculation. Prostate massage is basically the same thing, except for fun.
Some guys enjoy prostate stimulation more than others. If you prefer anal stimulation without prostate massage, that's fine. If you like it but it's not epic, that's also fine and it doesn't mean you're doing anything wrong.
Things have changed over the past couple of weeks in both methods and output, I've always enjoyed anal play and on more than one occasion, I've slipped the U shaped handle up my butt hoping to feel something good but nothing much happened except feeling unfulfilled. Since now enjoying prostrate orgasm's I decided to try it again and at first still nothing special. Then suddenly from out of nowhere everything took a strange turn, I don't understand why things changed but don't really care at this point.
I wanted another orgasm the other night using the butt plug and for no reason I can think of I started squirting streams of fluid. One contraction being followed up by two, three and more, with more streams of fluids squirting from my penis. My prostrate that took so long to get motivated was for some reason getting more sensitive with each orgasm. Now back in 2018 I was diagnosed with colon cancer and was rushed in for emergency surgery where my colon and mot of my lower bowel was removed. This has left me using an ostomy bag for my bowel movements.
It also means no c**p in my butt but there is another issue created, my rectum and remaining bowel produce a lubricant similar in nature to what a woman's vagina would but we all do this. Mine has nothing else in it and upon any anal stimulation my butt oozes lubricant, it coats my butt crack and checks in a matter of about four minutes. This gets very arousing and combine now with using the cane handle slipped up my butt. as I lift the leg of the cane up from my belly it touches on my prostrate, combined with pulling in and out, it continues to massage my prostrate. It only takes about six short thrusts before the contractions start again and as long as I can keep moving the cane, the orgasm continues along with the never ending streams of fluid from my penis.
Never in my life have I been able to have long orgasm's like this and figured after what I put my ass and prostrate through last night, I continued this morning. This morning however, I'd stop, catch my breath and after only one to two strokes with the cane and I was orgasming again. I was walking around after with rubber legs and feeling as if the movements of my ass walking was going to cause me to cum yet again. I had no idea my prostrate could be this sensitive or bring such pleasure but it can get messy fast. I just put down one of the puppy pee pads under me and enjoy, shower after.