I have been with my boyfriend for about a year, and he has always said that sex is not a great importance in a relationship. he even said that before we did anything... when we do have sex it is very good for both of us, but it is very infrequent. He does however masterbate every morning in front of the shower. I don't know why, I would be willing, does anyone know if this is normal, I should get over it, or should i be looking for something else??? We wake up at the same time, I am not as rushed as he is to go to work, I just dont understand why he does it all the time.
Many men continue to masturbate when in a hapy relationship. The fact that he doesn't hid it from you is good. Masturbation is a quick way of releasing sexual tension. Next time he goes to the shower, wait until he starts masturbating then you take over for him. Explain to him that you just want to make him cum, and don't necessarily want stimulating as well. Any man should be delighted to have their partner masturbate them to orgasm.
That is a great idea. I would die to have a partner like that. It defines team work.
My girlfriend won't let me masturbate :-( She always beats me to it. ;-)