First off, don't hate. I began masturbating with a shower head at the beginning of the year by letting it hit my clitorus. My labia appear bruised, as they are purple with some areas that are instead black. They don't hurt or anything, so most posts about this don't concern me. I'm just freaking out because I'm probably going to need my first bikini wax soon, and I don't want my mom finding out! Should I stop masturbating until they heal? Or is it fine if a continue? (Sometimes I'm so aroused I can't control it) Will they heal, or is it normal for them to look like that? I'd really like some help. Thank you!
Don't worry, they are perfectly normal. Enjoy yourself. If you had been a boy they would have become your scrotum (ball sack). You probably haven't seen many of those yet but when you do you will understand. Hope you like your -- ouch --- bikini wax. I think hairless is beautiful.