me and my boyfriend have been having sex for a few months now and never have had problems before now. we have it frequently, and im wondering if there is such thing as too much, or if i need to give myself a break because lately its like hes too big or something. when we try to have intercourse it burns like there is a rash and my vagina feels cut up or torn. i've heard before of people who dont fit, are we just not the right size? but that doesnt make sense we didnt used to have problems. if i give myself a week or so it goes away and we can have sex but then later it will hurt again. it doesnt hurt when i pee, and it doesnt itch.

is there anything i can do? my sex life feels ruined because im always afraid it will hurt.