Then after a weeK all worked well, Now we have three children and 40 years of marriage
I'm afraid
Is she becomes pregnant
If so it would be when your hymen broke.
You can check the state of your hymen by using a hand-mirror.
Hi it's probably because when you finger yourself your more relaxed and turned on there for your vagina muscles as more relaxed making penetration easier when you do it yourself, there are many ways your hymen can break without any kind of sexual contact and you may not even realise it's happened, you can always check yours to see using a hand mirror. If you would like more information or help feel free to ask :-)
It depends what you mean by "lose Virginity". Technically you are a virgin until you have sexual intercourse (penis penetrating vagina). So you cannot really lose your virginity by fingering.
However, many people equate an intact hymen with virginity as the hymen is often ruptured on first intercourse, so the hymen has historically been called the 'maidenhead'.
So if by "Does fingering really makes you lose Virginity ?" you meant "Does fingering really makes you lose Hymen ?", the the answer is "Not necessarily, but it can do so".
I hope this helps