If there is bleeding from the vagina after fingering, then the likelihood is that the hymen has been ruptured.
Technically, despite a ruptured hymen, virginity has technically not been lost through fingering. Someone is a virgin until full sexual intercourse, when a penis penetrates the vagina.
Fingering certainly can cause the hymen to rupture.
True, the hymen (usually) has a finger-sized hole which can be penetrated by a finger (as it can by a tampon). However fingering is often done by two fingers, and is often more than simple penetration. It is frequently quite energetic.
Also, some hymens are quite fragile, and are easily ruptured. The hymen can also be ruptured when engaging in (for instance) energetic sports, gymnastics, cycling or horse-riding. Conversely, some hymens are tough, and do not easily rupture, even with sexual intercourse.
Technically, virginity is only lost when a penis enters the vagina, whatever the state of the hymen (before or after).
The statement to which you replied is almost completely wrong! (See my previous post)
- "your finger is only in your virgina (vagina) whole (hole) it doesnt quite have enough forse (force) to break your hymen." A finger can certainly exert enough force to break the hymen. The finger has bone in it; a penis does not.
- "Even if you did break your hymen your cherry still dont pop" Breaking your hymen and popping your cherry mean the same thing!
- "your finger isnt as big nor as wide as an penis" That depends on the size of the penis. It is not just the size, but also the action. The hymen very often has a finger-sized hole in it, but there are variations of hymen presentation. Also a man's finger is often bigger than a woman's. Also two fingers are often used.
That's true [You're* totally wrong]! Also sometimes the hymen is very elastic and doesn't even break on first intercourse, especially with a smaller or thinner penis.