Cannot Masturbate

Hi, I had a similar problem, except I masturbated with my penis not being erected... I was so frustrated that I wouldn't perform, that I didn't even dare to get close to girls. I learnt that this thing is called prone masturbation and how dangerous it is as it does not simulate sex... so I stopped for a month - it was hard - then tried to do it the convensional way without success... so I was so desperate that I returned to prone... I think I ruined my sexual life way earlier, as I started this whole thing at a very early age and did it very often - very. Now I decided to stop again... and hope the best. I was really sad that I hadn't heard anything about this at school or elsewhere... Gotta confess I haven't yet heard anyone with the same problem though...

Please help me

Hi, I'm a girl and I have a similar problem. Except when I do masturbate I think about getting raped and I've never wanted to get raped the whole thing scares me I think I'm sick in the head. I'm 19 and am seeing a guy and we have had orgasms together but this happens rarely and I'm young so when I masturbate I think about him but all my other sexual partners pop into my head and it makes me feel awful so I can't finish. I also find it had to get in the mood where I want to do it. I felt really sorry as I read what you had written and I think you probably are a specail person. But I can imagine how frustrating that could be. But as far as fantasys Go I just thought I could relate

does your foreskin roll back?as in does the shiny head of your penis come out?

Masturbation should be done in a place where one has privacy. Favorite places are in the shower or in bed at night.

There is no lower or upper age limit for masturbation. Some pre-school boys masturbate and some elderly people masturbate at least into their late seventies. Foreskinned boys usually learn how to do it earlier than unforeskinned boys.

One may masturbate as much or as little as one wishes, however one may experience temporary sexual exhaustion due to very frequent masturbation. Three times a day works well for many teens.

1. Do it before school in the morning. This helps you get through the school day without being excessively h*rny.

2. Do it after school because you have gone a whole day without masturbating.

3. Do it before going to sleep. This helps with restful, sound sleep.

The movable, internally-lubricated, nerve-laden erogenous foreskin and its gliding action is an important aid to masturbation. Circumcision was introduced to unforeskin the penis and make it impossible to masturbate. It failed to stop masturbation but it made it harder to do and perhaps less enjoyable. How one does it depends on whether one has an internally lubricated movable foreskin that glides up and down the shaft or whether you have been unforeskinned. If you are foreskinned, then all you need to do is glide your foreskin back and forth. It is not necessary to retract the foreskin. The outer foreskin glides over the inner foreskin. The foreskin is internally lubricated with lymphatic fluid and glides without friction. The numerous nerves inside the foreskin are stimulated by the motion and generate pleasurable sensations. Foreskinned males must be careful not to tear the frenulum.

Long and vigorous masturbation can cause the foreskin to become edematous and swollen, which is painless and not a cause for alarm. The edema usually goes down within about 24 hours.

Pulling back too hard is apt to stretch the frenulum and may tear it.

If you are unforeskinned and the skin is taut and immovable, then you will need some lubrication and you need to slide your hand up and down the shaft. You will likely injure yourself without lubricant. Friction irritation is common when a male without foreskin masturbates without lubricant. Some lubricants are baby oil, vegetable oil, personal lubricant, soapy water, and saliva. It is common for an unforeskinned male, who has been deprived of his internally lubricated foreskin, to have irritation if he does not apply external lubricant.

After a male ejaculates, there is normally a “refractory period” before he can have sex again.

I know this post is old, but i am 34 and I have the same situation. I have tried and tried to masturbate with my hand, it feels good but cannot finish. This is the same with my sexual partners. Unless they want to f**k I cannot cum and even then it can take a while if they are not tight enough. If they want me to cum when they jerk me off or suck me off I cant do it. I have learnt to live with it, but it would be nice to have a wank without having to f**k the floor.

But like Nathan the compliments about how good my f*****g technique is welcome but with 18 years of daily practice it should be.

But at least I know I am not alone with this.

first :Are you female or male ?

Men who have been deforeskinned have fewer nerves and many find it harder to climax. That may be your situation.

This is my exact problem. I have been masturbating since I was really young (~5 yrs old, pretty crazy stuff) and I guess I kinda just discovered this method. I have always wanted to be able to use my hands, but it just doesn't work. Maybe it is something psychological about what I have done in the past but I am not really sure.

Same problem dude