Don't worry. Nobody's infallible and it is perfectly normal to fail every now and then. That doesn't mean that you're sick or impotent. Anxiety, stress, depression, mood fluctuations can have a drastic impact on a man's sex life but that's no reason to panic. Psychogenic ED is, in fact, easily treatable.
If you have any questions or if the situation persists for more than three months, go see a urologist. It's no shame to seek professional help. Even if this is psychological, a urologist can prescribe you an effective treatment.
If you have any questions or if the situation persists for more than three months, go see a urologist. It's no shame to seek professional help. Even if this is psychological, a urologist can prescribe you an effective treatment.
hi i'm 16 and havent watched poen in a month or so but i just cant get it up even when masturbating it takes it's sweet time i used to wach porn alot and i could always get it up and sometimes it got quite erm... arkward i.i sat in class :/ but now i just cant :-( PLEASE HELP!
I am 17 and i am in a long distance relationship i know how you guys feel i have kept my virginity for my girl for a long time and so has she when it finally came down to it i couldnt get hard or cum it would take FOREVER when she gave hand jobs. Lay off the porn and the jacking off for about a month once you get comfortable and very turned on for your girl you will do it a couple times and get comfortable and used to it, then you can start to jackoff again i promice you just need to relax and layoff the spanking no one here has a medical problem but this happens to the best of us.
i am 19, and had my fair share of sex over the years, usually it was sex withing a 2 month period, but just recently ive waited 5 months for sex, and when i started to makeout with my girl on bed and touch her i was very erect, then when the sex began i would go soft and she would be worried its her and no matter how many times i told her it isnt she didnt believe me, i never watch porn and havent masturbated in a long while, when i wake up the next morning i have an erection from just thinking of how beautiful she is, this is killing me with headaches, i was thinking the same thoughts during sex /:
hey man im 15 an im so attracted to my gf an shes my first sexual relationship to an the first night i had sex with her it wasnt completely hard i thought it was just because i was drinkin. but she has a grerat personality an shed pick on me about not gettin hard lol so now its in the back of my head that i wont get hard an the next time i was there we tried but i was drunk an id keep makin jokes about it tho so it wouldnt be awkward even tho she thinks there something wrong with her cuz she dont think she turns me on but she does an she had sex with 4 other dudes before i used to think thatt wa the problem cuz i thought id have to compare to them but it wasnt cuz i finally forgave her of her past and just last night we trid everything she even sucked it an i was inside of her not een fully hard an it wouldnt get hard. i always think about someone walkin in an i just try to hard to get it hard ppl say i shoul;d just relax, but i used to masterbate alll the time like 5 times a night im quittin doing that but i even tired havin sex with her sober and it got harder than usual but not completely hard if you think theres something wrong with you then it wont get hard but it gets hard as rock when im by myself. last night she was completely naked on top of me she did everything right but still nothing happened. im done masturbating lol so next time hopefully i can do it an im just not gonna worry about it. i think it might be cuz its never in a bed an always at her house idk but just dont worry about it man an dont get it in your head that you cant get it hard cuz thatll make it worse just make sure you dont worry about it dude just relax
tryskull man, im having the same f*****g problem. my girlfriend is f*****g hot and we used to get it on all the time but lately, we havent so much because of my problem. we get sexual and the clothes start coming off but it goes down after a few minutes which really bums her out because she thinks i dont see her as attractive anymore when thats not the case. my problem is that im hesitate around her now for some reason and i cant quite shake it off. the more comfortable you are with your girlfriend, the more success youll have with her man, trust me. if there are no worries, there will be more to be happy about. take your time with this man, dont rush things. and also try explaining this same way or how to your girl. she needs to know this too.
Same problem with me 21, two weeks ago just couldn't get it up , lost quite a bit of desire for sex, i just dont now what to do, even when i masturbate now i still cant get it fully hard, and now i feel so bad for my mr's she thinks its her fault FML
lol i thought i was alone. Im 18 and I have the same problem as you guys.. iv been with this girl and she would get naked and all that but at the end of the day i wouldnt rise to the occation and it pisses me off badly and its not the first time this has happened to me... I also think that its the porn that screwed me up because i can get hard alone or watching porn but with her... different story. And im too young to be popping pills to get a hard on... so yea... i feel your pain man
I hate that mind thing that blocks your erection, whatever it is... I had this kind of fails before, but only when I was silver. Laugh or not, but couple of bears make you really forget all the "perfect" sex thing and really turns you on. I am in a long realationship with a girl I love, she is hot and beautiful, but when it gets down to bed, I just can't get comfortable... Like it's my first time or smt. And yea, porns do destroy your brain. On the other hand as you guys said, she thinks it's the problem with her and i hate when she thinks of that... When we go out for a drink I could easily have sex with her even in the bar's girl's room, but she isn't into it... So, as for now, relaxing is the best way and not thinking about it, don't plan sex. just... relax.
Its all in your mind.When you are with your GF you feel too sexy,excited as a result get aroused too quickly.Try to calm down and take deep breaths as a result you will be able to last longer.
Hey guys... I just wanted to weigh in here and let you all know that feeling nervous, or worried, or guilty will ALWAYS make you soft or at least not let you get full control of your erection.
I'm 30... Just turned. I'm married, and have been for 10 years. I've never had any problem getting hard with my wife, but a few years ago, I started to f**k around behind her back... And guess what happened? I couldn't get-it-up. I know now it's because I was feeling nervous and guilty about cheating, but for years it's driven me crazy. I'm convinced my body won't let me cheat. I've even tried with strippers and one GORGEOUS model... no dice. Like you boys, I'd get hard when we were making out, even got super-hard sometimes in their hands and mouth, but as soon as I'd lower myself towards thier pussies... softness!
It drove me crazy, because like you guys I've always been able to get hard 1. in the morning, 2. when masterbating, and in my case, 3. with my wife... So why not with these other girls?
The only thing I can think of is that our bodies are much more tuned-in then we think we are...
Anyway, the happy ending to this story is I've decided to stop trying to chase extra-tail, and am focusing on my wife, who I love and want to be with for the rest of my life... and guess what? Our sex is better than it's ever been! More often than not, we cum at exactly the same time, which rocks, and we cum so hard and fast that we usually f**k a couple times a day... every day!
Now I KNOW I was a douche-bag for years trying to f**k other girls, so please save me the lecture, and take solice that if you stick with one girl, and give yourself time to feel comfortable, everything will work out for you. Promise :-)
I'm 30... Just turned. I'm married, and have been for 10 years. I've never had any problem getting hard with my wife, but a few years ago, I started to f**k around behind her back... And guess what happened? I couldn't get-it-up. I know now it's because I was feeling nervous and guilty about cheating, but for years it's driven me crazy. I'm convinced my body won't let me cheat. I've even tried with strippers and one GORGEOUS model... no dice. Like you boys, I'd get hard when we were making out, even got super-hard sometimes in their hands and mouth, but as soon as I'd lower myself towards thier pussies... softness!
It drove me crazy, because like you guys I've always been able to get hard 1. in the morning, 2. when masterbating, and in my case, 3. with my wife... So why not with these other girls?
The only thing I can think of is that our bodies are much more tuned-in then we think we are...
Anyway, the happy ending to this story is I've decided to stop trying to chase extra-tail, and am focusing on my wife, who I love and want to be with for the rest of my life... and guess what? Our sex is better than it's ever been! More often than not, we cum at exactly the same time, which rocks, and we cum so hard and fast that we usually f**k a couple times a day... every day!
Now I KNOW I was a douche-bag for years trying to f**k other girls, so please save me the lecture, and take solice that if you stick with one girl, and give yourself time to feel comfortable, everything will work out for you. Promise :-)
Hi guys! I'm 33 and i've been through one situation that i'd like to share with you.
I've had a lot of girls before, in and out of oficial realtionships and always had
hard rock boner. I also had an not so steady relationship with a girl
during most of the time. She had no experience at all.
So almost all encounters i had i filled the role of the dominant part, and everything
was fine.
Now i've met the most wonderful girl, she has everything looks, body, will... So when we
started to get intimate, my body instead of enjoying her (really she's awsome)
i started feeling anxious and my love-bone kept sleeping...
well i've tried a second time with the same result.
Something was really weird, it get up when i was alone, it get up with other girls...
he didn't get up with that specific girl...
So i talked to her and came clean with her, at first she blamed herself but then understood.
I went cold turkey... no porn, no "self-motivation" for 2 weeks and i kept being with her
without having sex.
Suddenly in one of these nights it suddenly woke up, my reaction was to rush things while
it was up... wrong call... it dropped like a stone.
So i dettached myself mentally from the problem and meditated, and just didn't do anything just relaxed...
and after 2 weeks mr boner was back in action... i know it's going to happen again occasionally but now i know how to deal with it.
So this is my advice: no porn, no selfbeat, meditate, do sports take a break from forcing it and relax,
it will come around.
I've had a lot of girls before, in and out of oficial realtionships and always had
hard rock boner. I also had an not so steady relationship with a girl
during most of the time. She had no experience at all.
So almost all encounters i had i filled the role of the dominant part, and everything
was fine.
Now i've met the most wonderful girl, she has everything looks, body, will... So when we
started to get intimate, my body instead of enjoying her (really she's awsome)
i started feeling anxious and my love-bone kept sleeping...
well i've tried a second time with the same result.
Something was really weird, it get up when i was alone, it get up with other girls...
he didn't get up with that specific girl...
So i talked to her and came clean with her, at first she blamed herself but then understood.
I went cold turkey... no porn, no "self-motivation" for 2 weeks and i kept being with her
without having sex.
Suddenly in one of these nights it suddenly woke up, my reaction was to rush things while
it was up... wrong call... it dropped like a stone.
So i dettached myself mentally from the problem and meditated, and just didn't do anything just relaxed...
and after 2 weeks mr boner was back in action... i know it's going to happen again occasionally but now i know how to deal with it.
So this is my advice: no porn, no selfbeat, meditate, do sports take a break from forcing it and relax,
it will come around.
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Im 17 and I used to have the exact smae problem with my girlfriend. Back then, I was 16 and I had no sex experience compared to her because she was kinda hot and she lost her virginity like 2 years before me. I guess my problem was that I was nervous when we came to have sex because I always got hard very easiy when we were just making out but when we were naked and she was about to blow me, I just couldnt get hard at all. Then I started using this bodybuilding supplement called bsn no xplode wich is a nitric oxyde supplement and what that does is it increases the blood flow in your muscles so when youre working out at the gym your muscles are pumped and you feel bigger and it does actually gives you very good results but after I started using it, I would have rock hard erections with my girlfriend and she definetely noticed it. Now I dont use any supplement and I dont have any problems when it comes to sex. Try out and maybe this could help you.
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i just married on may i got same problem like this while i was alone i got very tight my dic but when i go fro sex with my wife
i am feeling that i can't able to incert my panis inside, it's happen again again
i am just 24 yrs old what can i do
and how can i get my sex back