Hi, I have so many problems in my relationship. Since my husband is fired, he can’t function normally and we are fighting all the time.
Hi, I and my husband used to fight quite often, before we went to counselor. The tension was so strong that occasionally we didn’t speak for a few days. At the time when you are fighting, it makes you easier to let every thought and emotion out of you, but after a day or two later you may realize what you did and regret it. It is so easy to hurt somebody, but you are getting hurt too. Now, we have decided to keep fights at more reasonable level, if this is possible at all. Occasionally, one of us agrees to the other’s point of view on the topic. So, tension gets down.