change of thought after masturbation

same here. iv always thought that was weird but iv never given it much thought and it doesnt seem like a big deal to me, the excitement just wears off i guess

i'm in the same boat

No, it's not normal and Yes, it's strange. I've been sexually active with the same female partner for 10 yrs. but in between times, I masturbate too. However, there is nothing like the real thing and masturbating is like practicing for the big game and should or won't ever replace a warm, wet, vagina!

I used to always feel that after I would Masturbate too. I felt so wrong and scared... and very weird. I hated the feeling. I was very young then, Now I don't have it anymore it just vanished. :-D

You probably feel wrong and weird after masturbation because culture, society, religion, your parents,... have all conspired to make you feel like masturbation is this bad evil taboo even though most people have done it regularly at some point in their lives.

It's hard to be open about masturbation since it is a very personal thing with very little place in modern society/culture. But we all (or most) do it and we do it for the same reason. It makes us feel good and it's not hard to do (usually). If there was a pill to give an orgasm, we'd all be hooked.

So find a quiet, private, comfortable place and feel free to masturbate. And when you're done, don't quickly move on. Enjoy the post-orgasm solitude for a few moments and tell yourself "That was fun. I enjoyed that!"

Hopefully I'm to late, If your still dealing with this It's the holy spirit condemning us, telling us that this is wrong. God is putting thoughts in us and making us feel like that so we won't do it again. With enough strength and time spent with God and seeking his will, you'll over come this. You can live without masturbation, don't let it overcome you. I'll be praying for you and I'm going through the same steps, we will come out victorious. God still loves you! Do right by him so he can be proud and reward you greatly.

I believe in God but yo, chill. you don't know how it really works, it's all different from what religion really teaches, there's similarities but... I believe in being spiritual, not religious. you aren't condemned for masturbating haha, when you bust or whatever it's like a release of energy. I see it as brain power (kinda) it is better not to do it though. although doing it doesn't send you to hell, hell is for very very evil ass beings, it's like, below the lower 4th dimension, you can learn a lot from meditating, and eventually maybe exploring the astral plain. I learned a lot, on my own. I didn't need someone to tell me what is true or not or what is wrong or not. you know what's wrong because you'll feel it, everyone has morals, but some people go against them hard and long enough to where they ceist to excist, if you don't believe in a soul and spirit and higher power, you just haven't looked into it or your mind is too finite. I don't know why I'm still typing this, this comment was posted over a year ago.. why am I even on this page...