Glad to hear about his mom!
NOW lets look at this bigger picutre OK? He is BRAND new into your life! They don't know him at ALL? So 1st he has NO right to be mad at them!
2nd your parent have finally come around, and you were DEVESTATED at your old school - with the old Anthony, and people talking about you etc! So they are protecting you and also themselves from "gossip mongers"
3rd You have a LOT to prove to them! They CAN'T even think that their teenage daughter who is pregnant with her ex boyfriends babies out there on the town with a new guy they do NOT know! I know you are young BUT lets go forward 15/16 years and one of your daughters (I have a feeling you are having 2 girls!!!!) comes to you and says "Mom I'm pregnant with twins, I've broken up with their dad and now want to go out with my new boyfriend that I just met and go out to party's and stuff like a regular teenager!" Now I know that's a BIG jump and not exactly what you are doing, but just bare with me for a minute OK?! So you do THAT jump and try and see IF you have any sympathy and understanding for what your parents are thinking right now! They are not only deaing with their own emotions, but they are also trying to protect you and their future grandchildren from ridicule and getting a "reputation"! Once again I am NOT saying you are going out there getting drunk and throwing yourself all over the place, BUT they don't trust that right now! So you AND Anthony HAVE to respect their beliefs and their concerns! IF Anthony has a problem about coming over to the house etc and being "normal" then it's ANTHONY that has the problem! He and you HAVE to prove to them that you are old enough and mature enough to honor their wishes! You can't be kids having a TANTRUM that you can't get your own way! THIS is THIS!!! It is what it is! REALITY!! So you both need to chill! Let them get to know Anthony and visa versa and then go from there!
NOW lets look at this bigger picutre OK? He is BRAND new into your life! They don't know him at ALL? So 1st he has NO right to be mad at them!
2nd your parent have finally come around, and you were DEVESTATED at your old school - with the old Anthony, and people talking about you etc! So they are protecting you and also themselves from "gossip mongers"
3rd You have a LOT to prove to them! They CAN'T even think that their teenage daughter who is pregnant with her ex boyfriends babies out there on the town with a new guy they do NOT know! I know you are young BUT lets go forward 15/16 years and one of your daughters (I have a feeling you are having 2 girls!!!!) comes to you and says "Mom I'm pregnant with twins, I've broken up with their dad and now want to go out with my new boyfriend that I just met and go out to party's and stuff like a regular teenager!" Now I know that's a BIG jump and not exactly what you are doing, but just bare with me for a minute OK?! So you do THAT jump and try and see IF you have any sympathy and understanding for what your parents are thinking right now! They are not only deaing with their own emotions, but they are also trying to protect you and their future grandchildren from ridicule and getting a "reputation"! Once again I am NOT saying you are going out there getting drunk and throwing yourself all over the place, BUT they don't trust that right now! So you AND Anthony HAVE to respect their beliefs and their concerns! IF Anthony has a problem about coming over to the house etc and being "normal" then it's ANTHONY that has the problem! He and you HAVE to prove to them that you are old enough and mature enough to honor their wishes! You can't be kids having a TANTRUM that you can't get your own way! THIS is THIS!!! It is what it is! REALITY!! So you both need to chill! Let them get to know Anthony and visa versa and then go from there!
well they are getting to know them but im so done with hospital i never want to go to one again and i hope my life doesnt get wrost
You're not done with hospital quite yet!!! ;-)
And right now I know you think that your life sucks, BUT there are young girls out there with NO ONE right now! You have your family back, a new guy, some girls are on the street with NOTHING! So think of it that way OK?
And right now I know you think that your life sucks, BUT there are young girls out there with NO ONE right now! You have your family back, a new guy, some girls are on the street with NOTHING! So think of it that way OK?
right now im wishing i had never went to my doctors appointment at childrens hospital and now it really does suck
What do you mean honey?
We had to go down so i could get a checkup and they ask if the heart people were looking for us and and he asked if they found was and i said no and was like ill be right back and when he left i started to cry and he came and said i need 2 operations
Do you have a hole in your heart?!!!
Just know this is USUALLY found when a woman is pregnant! What did they say?
Just know this is USUALLY found when a woman is pregnant! What did they say?
yea i do have a hole in my heart my dr said that i need to get it fixed soon
R they going to wait till you've had the babies or do it before?
they want to do it befor but i dont know if i want them to
IT's best before honey! And like I said earlier, MANY women with heart abnormalities show up when they are pregnant! The Cardiologist will know what they are doing honey! Due to the fact that you are carrying twins, the longer you go one the more pressure it will be on your heart! And the more blood they need! So your heart NEEDS to be working at it's best!
but thats onlyy one of the operstions
What's the other? STOP making me ask!!!! ;-) XD
when i was little they did an operation on my kidneys and now after so many years they need to do an operation to see if they were both working and now then need to remove my one thats not working at all
I am sure they will want to wait till after the babies are born for that honey! As this means MAJOR surgery and going throught he back! Did they mention they want to do that now?!! If so WHY?!!! I know it's more strain on your kidneys, BUT you really only need 1/3 of a kidney to fully function - of course this would be more with babies! How far along are you honey right now!?