I'M 19 year old lady,currently a student.Started my 1st relationship last year december,my boyfriend wants to have sex wth me,i told him i'm nt ready he understood but he wanna knw whn m i gng 2 be ready? And the thing is that i cant tel him.And i jst started dating last year itz been 6 mnths now, i dont wanna rush into things.I wanna enjoy datin without intermacy.I told him dat but stil he wanna knw how long am i going to be ready?the thing is i cant preadict when am i going to be ready ...he also wanna know if he cant get from the woman that he loves which is me,where can he get it?he want to know what about him bcoz he wants to do it nd i doin,how should he fill?I LOVE HIM SO So MUCH AND dont wanna loose him.what must i do 4 our relationship to though am not giving him what he wants?
You're not compromising on what movie to go & see, so stop & listen to yourself. Are you just not ready, does religion play a part, thoughts of pregnancy/ STD's/ intamacy, first time jitters, these can all play apart in your decision making. The number one thing is to not let anyone pressure you. Then again some people want their first time to be like a fairy tale, while others make no big deal about thier first time. Sex can add depth, new levels of intamacy & attachment, while on the other hand it can add problems & make things more complicated (good & or bad).
DONT let anyone but yourself decide for you.
Hope this helps.