I'm 14 and I want to go to the doctor's office for a check up, with my mom, I have been fingered before if the doc finds out will he/she tells my mother?
yes she will becuz you are underage, does ur mom know that u are sexually active?
Yes ofcourse, Dr. will tell your mom everything he-she looks about your body and vagina. I suggest you tell your mom all you done before. At your early age you are a sexually active now. Be carefully please, think about pregnancy, STD, HIV-AIDS, Herpes, etc. You are too young and could ruin your life.
Having a child at a young age doesn't 'ruin' your life. For some teens yes but for me becoming a mom was the best thing that could've ever happened to me.
That depends on the doctor and the regime he is under. Where are you?
The doctor may not know you have been fingered if your hymen is still intact. The same impact could occur by fingering yourself in solo masturbation. Also the hymen could rupture by vigorous activity like sports and horse-riding. When asked about sexual activity you can say you are still a virgin if you have not had sexual intercourse.
Hope this helps.
No, there is a law between patients and doctors if you are not a virgin that he can't tell your mother unless u say so, and I know because I have been to a gynecologist. The doctor may only break that law if he is worried that you may be in danger of a disease or infecfion.
The law varies from country to country. So the law depends on where you live.