If you had a penis inside of you, you're not a virgin.
I recently lost my virginity ( so did she) the girl im seeing she txted me saying there wsa blood and it stung to urinate.
im no doctor but im guessing that its normal for a girl whos lost her virginity?
I need some quick advice to reassure her before i talk to her next
can you guys help!
email me i wont be on her emuch i just need the help!
im no doctor but im guessing that its normal for a girl whos lost her virginity?
I need some quick advice to reassure her before i talk to her next
can you guys help!
email me i wont be on her emuch i just need the help!
Your Kinda Stupid Because You Let Your Boy Friend Do It To You
now few dayzz my boy frnd sex wth me not full intercouse but ths time my bleeding start now plzz u tell my virgin lossing me cozz my boy not full intercouse wth me but still in future doing sex agn bleeding start my verignity ya not plzzzzzzzzz tell me
Hello. Yes, the hymen can be damaged through vigorous activities such as horse riding and gymnastics, which happened to my best-friend.
heyy everyone. im 16. and the one guy and i have been fooling around alot latly. you noe the normal making out fingerin blow job sort stuff. well he wants to have sex but im scared. im ready but im not. im just woried about bleeding. is it ganna effect me n him? is he ganna get grossed out!?? pleaseee help
Once you lose it you can't get it back...so no. It just means that since it's been a long time sice you had intercourse your vaginal muscles have tightened back up a bit...it could also mean that you weren't lubricated enough, use a waterbased lubricant, KY is the best. NEVER use Petrolium jelly!!!! it damages and brakes condoms and it can cause nasty infections!
some girls may even break their hymen due to very heavy periods so if it is such a big issue in your family-you can tell them thats what happened
sorry wrong topic
[Ok, I just HAVE to post]
I assume everyone is taking sex ed? If not, you should. I never did, but I started reading university-level sex-ed books while still in grade 7. Don't ask. Go find a picture of Genital warts, and see if you ever eat Cauliflower again. Or:
DON'T GET AN STD NO MATTER WHAT!!! [and if you wanna be scared into abstinence, look up the statistics on the number of people with STDs]
As someone mentioned condoms and PJ don't mix. It's actually much more general that that: oil + rubber = degredation. This is the same with all things - I've had the rubber on an extremely expensive mouse break down (it flaked apart) because it was in contact with oil. The same thing happens with condoms. So don't go eating pizza while using the computer, and don't try rubbing a pizza down there for the guy to eat first. *chuckles - porn movie stylings*
Now, we all know what viginity means. Or do we? For guys, virginity means not having had sex in that particular location before, which is why guys use terms like "anal virginity" etc. [honestly, I would not be surpised to see "nostril virginity" or "ear canal virginity" popping up somewhere] But really, the idea is to represent innocence.
If your hymen breaks, you are still a virgin. If you use a dildo and break your hymen, you are still a virgin [see arguments on mastrubation - eg: in the olden days, the Kings wanted sons of their own, and a safeguard was to make sure they always married virgins. The only way they knew how to check was to see if the hymen ripped after the first night, leaving blood on the beddings. From this, we got the desire to leave the hymen intact, and to discourage mastrubation - purely clitoral, or involving a dildo --- OK, I made up the conclusion. But it makes sense.]
If you practice fisting, but have not actually had intercourse, you might still a virgin. It's kinda pushing it.
The real question is whether you have had intercourse. And not just penis-vagina intercourse, intercourse is defined in many ways. One of them it mouth-to-mouth intercourse... commonly known as french kissing.
So, in terms of the ideal, if you have ever french-kissed someone, you are not a virgin. If you want to settle for lesser ideals such as "while I've had oral sex, inserted large dildos up my ass and vagina, this is the first real penis I've stuck in there" that's up to you.
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What people seem to be missing is that there are different cultures. In a Hindu culture, repairing the hymen no matter what the cost would be a common attitude [eg, Miia's comment]. So it's different in each location - but, here, in the great frozen tundra above those blasted Americans, what I said above might be valid.
I assume everyone is taking sex ed? If not, you should. I never did, but I started reading university-level sex-ed books while still in grade 7. Don't ask. Go find a picture of Genital warts, and see if you ever eat Cauliflower again. Or:
DON'T GET AN STD NO MATTER WHAT!!! [and if you wanna be scared into abstinence, look up the statistics on the number of people with STDs]
As someone mentioned condoms and PJ don't mix. It's actually much more general that that: oil + rubber = degredation. This is the same with all things - I've had the rubber on an extremely expensive mouse break down (it flaked apart) because it was in contact with oil. The same thing happens with condoms. So don't go eating pizza while using the computer, and don't try rubbing a pizza down there for the guy to eat first. *chuckles - porn movie stylings*
Now, we all know what viginity means. Or do we? For guys, virginity means not having had sex in that particular location before, which is why guys use terms like "anal virginity" etc. [honestly, I would not be surpised to see "nostril virginity" or "ear canal virginity" popping up somewhere] But really, the idea is to represent innocence.
If your hymen breaks, you are still a virgin. If you use a dildo and break your hymen, you are still a virgin [see arguments on mastrubation - eg: in the olden days, the Kings wanted sons of their own, and a safeguard was to make sure they always married virgins. The only way they knew how to check was to see if the hymen ripped after the first night, leaving blood on the beddings. From this, we got the desire to leave the hymen intact, and to discourage mastrubation - purely clitoral, or involving a dildo --- OK, I made up the conclusion. But it makes sense.]
If you practice fisting, but have not actually had intercourse, you might still a virgin. It's kinda pushing it.
The real question is whether you have had intercourse. And not just penis-vagina intercourse, intercourse is defined in many ways. One of them it mouth-to-mouth intercourse... commonly known as french kissing.
So, in terms of the ideal, if you have ever french-kissed someone, you are not a virgin. If you want to settle for lesser ideals such as "while I've had oral sex, inserted large dildos up my ass and vagina, this is the first real penis I've stuck in there" that's up to you.
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What people seem to be missing is that there are different cultures. In a Hindu culture, repairing the hymen no matter what the cost would be a common attitude [eg, Miia's comment]. So it's different in each location - but, here, in the great frozen tundra above those blasted Americans, what I said above might be valid.
ok folks my period usually comes around the 10th and i lost my virginity on the 26th with no condom but using withdrawal. on the 28th and and the 1st there some bleeding and today is the 14 and no period. the periods usually come about 4 days later each month but it will help to know. so does anyone have any advice or info and does losing your virginity mess around with your cycle?
Girls, If your goal is to remain a Virgin, then you must practice abstinence. SO NOT HAVE SEX! If your boyfriend has penetrated you (stuck his penis into your vagina) then I'm sorry to say that you have lost your virginity. Also, bleeding during your first time is absolutley normal.
Dr. Robert Ortiz
El Paso, TX
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Dr. Robert Ortiz
El Paso, TX
EMail Me Your QUESTIONS:
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First off you all are stupid but I can't blame you its how you were raised and how old you are better never the less ill help you out a bit here.
What is a virgen? Someone that hasnet had sex right? Good.
So what is sex? A male putting his penis inside a vagina entell he has a orgasm and cums.
There for a guy putting his penis inside you one time I would not count as sex or losing anything for that matter.
But sence its such a big deal for you not to lose it for your familys sake you can alsway just say you were not born with a hymen or lie and say it was broken when you were younger doing a sport or somthing like horseback riding will do that to you.
IF YOU WANT TO BE A VIRGEN THEN DONT LET YOU BOYFRIEND STICK HIS PENIS ANYWERE NEAR YOUR VAGINA HE MAY SAY ONLY ONE TIME OR WHAT EVER BUT TRUST ME HE WANTS MORE.
What is a virgen? Someone that hasnet had sex right? Good.
So what is sex? A male putting his penis inside a vagina entell he has a orgasm and cums.
There for a guy putting his penis inside you one time I would not count as sex or losing anything for that matter.
But sence its such a big deal for you not to lose it for your familys sake you can alsway just say you were not born with a hymen or lie and say it was broken when you were younger doing a sport or somthing like horseback riding will do that to you.
IF YOU WANT TO BE A VIRGEN THEN DONT LET YOU BOYFRIEND STICK HIS PENIS ANYWERE NEAR YOUR VAGINA HE MAY SAY ONLY ONE TIME OR WHAT EVER BUT TRUST ME HE WANTS MORE.
okay i just lost my virginity like a few hours ago. and, of course, i'm bleeding. what is like the normal length for bleeding after losing your virginity? so far i've seen about 4 days. but...i don't know.
This has to be one of the dumbest topics ever...Most people consider losing there virginity when they have sexual intercorse and from dictionary.com...
VIRGIN:
1. a person who has never had sexual intercourse.
You can only lose your virginity once. as once you have sex 1 time you can not have it for the first time again. If you buy a used computer its not new...
its a simple question of using logic.
PS: people need to learn how to freaking spell. VIRGEN is not a word.
There for is not a phrase
VIRGIN:
1. a person who has never had sexual intercourse.
You can only lose your virginity once. as once you have sex 1 time you can not have it for the first time again. If you buy a used computer its not new...
its a simple question of using logic.
PS: people need to learn how to freaking spell. VIRGEN is not a word.
There for is not a phrase