I didn't thoroughly read through the previous posts, but in case anyone hasn't answered it, and you guys are still scowering the internet trying to figure out whats wrong with your penis. The main thing I have to say, which I found on another site, is the fact that a woman's vagina can't compete with the tight grip of your hand during masturbation. its just not gonna happen. So if you're looking to please yourself and your woman, stop masturbating on a daily basis. in fact, it'd probably be wise to take a break from masturbating or sex for a couple of days and then have at it. you should find that your erection will be larger and last longer. at least thats the way it works for me. hope this helps.
i have a similiar issue(problem sounds bad) but its semi recent i am 26 and have had sex with alot of girls with never an issue at all maybe getting off a little quicker than id like on occasion but not usually less than 10 minutes or so. but i split up with my gf of 3 years about 3 months ago and i have been with maybe 5 girls since and all of them the same thing happens...if shes on top go all day long but if im the one having to get on top alot of the time the transition from blowjob to being on top is enough to make it not hard usually stays hard enough to continue but not in the same manner as i am used to and then even if it does stay hard small chance even inside her it will go down. and if neither of those things happens i get off in less than 5 mins.
most are going to say simple solution put the girl on top everytime that usually works but id really like to figure out what is going on i dont think its physical im pretty sure its mental but i still dont knwo how to overcome it. the break up with my ex was not traumatic or anything we stayed together for the last 2 years cause i loved her son like he was my own if so when it was time to split he was really the only thing i felt like i was losing.....ok enough of my book any suggestions at all would be awesome?
most are going to say simple solution put the girl on top everytime that usually works but id really like to figure out what is going on i dont think its physical im pretty sure its mental but i still dont knwo how to overcome it. the break up with my ex was not traumatic or anything we stayed together for the last 2 years cause i loved her son like he was my own if so when it was time to split he was really the only thing i felt like i was losing.....ok enough of my book any suggestions at all would be awesome?
that happens to my boyfriend sometimes! he says the condom is too tight, so sometimes we end up not using it at all! maybe that's the problem? Or you're just not maintaining a healthy enough lifestyle :[
hi i to have a similiar problem......ive been with my gf for 3 and half years and we have been able to have sex for majority of our relationship. it has been recently that it has been going away even before we start to have sex...it is ver upsetting cus we used to have sex for a long time and it felt great and i miss it. like i said it just started happening a few months ago. i master bate here and there not so much and i even refrain from it for long periods and everything is still the same. could it be becasue of blood flow or somthing i dought its becasue im nervous because im not
someone please post with a solution its very upsetting knowing that once you were able to get rock hard
someone please post with a solution its very upsetting knowing that once you were able to get rock hard
hi everyone,
Im looking for help on the same topic. My boyfriend and I have been together 4 years and have been having problems with his erections lately. He is fine when I give him blow jobs or when I stroke him but when it comes to sex it just goes wrong!
I feel as though I have been very supportive over the last 2 months but its getting to the stage now where I feel that its me. We talk all the time about it and he tells me how pathetic he feels and useless. I reassure him but in my mind I feel that hes just not attracted to me anymore. Granted I have put weight on recently and am too tired. We are very much in love and this is just really getting us down now... i think we are both too scared to try at the moment.
What can we do? and by the way...he is on zinc and its not doing the trick!
please only helpful replys!!!
Im looking for help on the same topic. My boyfriend and I have been together 4 years and have been having problems with his erections lately. He is fine when I give him blow jobs or when I stroke him but when it comes to sex it just goes wrong!
I feel as though I have been very supportive over the last 2 months but its getting to the stage now where I feel that its me. We talk all the time about it and he tells me how pathetic he feels and useless. I reassure him but in my mind I feel that hes just not attracted to me anymore. Granted I have put weight on recently and am too tired. We are very much in love and this is just really getting us down now... i think we are both too scared to try at the moment.
What can we do? and by the way...he is on zinc and its not doing the trick!
please only helpful replys!!!
hey guys I have had a breakthrough I don’t know if it will help you guys but it has helped me......ive been starting my mornings out with 2 vitamins a Centrum pill and another one that helps my circulatory system....after I take the pills I run for a while to get my blood pumping......the other day me and my gf where cuddling and then I got an erection...it was rock hard and stayed erect for the longest time... we had sex twice that night and my penis was still hard after words wanting more.....it went away after a while but dam guys I was so dam happy and it was the best sex I have had in a while....I recommend spooning mmm...if you guys have any questions email me at _[removed]_
I have the same problem, so I won't repeat the symptoms yet again, but I do have a little information to share. While I am not the picture of health, I am not obese or in major physical peril. I am married and 32. In my life I have never been able to have intercourse successfully, manual stimulation, of course, does work. I spent a good deal of time and money going to a urologist to see what if anything can be done. My contribution is that I have tried Viagra, Cialis, and the other one. They all could force erection, but during sex they left me.. low and dry- Sorry couldn't help myself. When those methods didn't work I was told to use banding/rings, which did not work either. Finally, the urologist prescribed papaverin for me. This is an injectable. It worked when I was in the office and was being taught how to use a syringe (after the smarting stopped from the needle). It only lasted about a half hour. I was never able to repeat the results at home because the pin prick was far too painful. Side note - regardless how small the gauge of the needle, it feels like a sharpened steel garden hose.
In summation, I believe that I have tried everything there is with no success. Perhaps ed-ed is right, the only thing I never seemed to be able to do is make myself healthier. Still though, I am even skeptical of this. For me manual stimulation works without a hitch, so if I am healthy enough to complete that act how can I not be healthy enough for my wife to complete the act using her body?
If anyone ever does come up with the answer I would be glad to hear it.
In summation, I believe that I have tried everything there is with no success. Perhaps ed-ed is right, the only thing I never seemed to be able to do is make myself healthier. Still though, I am even skeptical of this. For me manual stimulation works without a hitch, so if I am healthy enough to complete that act how can I not be healthy enough for my wife to complete the act using her body?
If anyone ever does come up with the answer I would be glad to hear it.
pls Sweet Violet pls list something that will help me and my boyfriend are both 20 and in college and we are very loving to one another and he stays aroused when we are performing foreplay and teasing but when it comes down to sex he just cant keep an erection, what can you advise me to do. I feel hurt because I don’t know if it is me?
Hi Guys,
Sorry many guys are having similar problem. To start with am not an expect but your problems to me are simple to correct. I experienced similar problems. Mostly men who masturbate too much tends to have your penis skin sensitivity adapting to the environment i.e. your hands or masturbation tools. Remember that during mustabation, it is not similar to foreplay, so you end up mustabating for a few minutes and you come out/ejaculate. Foreplay takes long hence your system was hard enough and then switch off/time out as it is used.
So what is the solution. Prepare your partner yes but let her also know your problem. Start foreplay when she knows very well your problem. Ladies are good let me congradulate them especially if they know your problem and are ready to help. She will do her mustabations/foreplay and come to you when already hot. Then you enter her and have nice f*****g together. With time, just one month or so the system will adopt. BUT DURING THIS PERIOD, MEN DONT MASTURBATE coz you will kill the therapy. It worked to me and has worked to several of ma friends. Give it a try and let me know the responses so that I post more data
Sorry many guys are having similar problem. To start with am not an expect but your problems to me are simple to correct. I experienced similar problems. Mostly men who masturbate too much tends to have your penis skin sensitivity adapting to the environment i.e. your hands or masturbation tools. Remember that during mustabation, it is not similar to foreplay, so you end up mustabating for a few minutes and you come out/ejaculate. Foreplay takes long hence your system was hard enough and then switch off/time out as it is used.
So what is the solution. Prepare your partner yes but let her also know your problem. Start foreplay when she knows very well your problem. Ladies are good let me congradulate them especially if they know your problem and are ready to help. She will do her mustabations/foreplay and come to you when already hot. Then you enter her and have nice f*****g together. With time, just one month or so the system will adopt. BUT DURING THIS PERIOD, MEN DONT MASTURBATE coz you will kill the therapy. It worked to me and has worked to several of ma friends. Give it a try and let me know the responses so that I post more data
hi everyone,
so i have the same problems described like most of you. I have no problems masturbating or getting an erection. But once penetration occurs, within 30 seconds my penis gets soft...done deal. I went to many specialists and no one could help. they stated that it's probably a "mental" issue and not physical. Confidence in pleasing a girl is an issue. I resorted to using the injection "papaverine" and it has helped. with the injection, I am able to have sexual intercourse for at least 30 minutes most of the time, not all the time. Because of this, I was able to build my confidence with each sexual encounter and within 6 months time, I was able to keep my erection without the injection maybe 3 out of 6 times. (intercouse probably lasted about 10-15 minutes) it's definitely an improvement from before.
Now I have been exercising more, eating healthier and taking these awesome nutritional supplements that my chiropractor recommended me.
He told me that I needed to cleanse and balance my body so that my organs/nerves will function at its optimum level along with getting chiropractic adjustments to stimulate nerves (some of which helps with sexual function). After taking these supplements for 2 months, I already feel a huge difference in my energy, mood, and my sex drive is through the roof. My hair, skin and nails look better too. I don't know what it is, but these supplements really helped. I am not totally cured, but I am able to maintain my erection 5 out of 6 times, I am definitely happy with that. I am not saying this will work for everyone, but it worked for me...and I thought I would share it with everyone.
the supplements that the doctor recommended me to take are: Go'yin, Nutrition Pure, and Liquid Cleanse (blend of traditional asian herbs and powerful anti-oxidants).
I do recommend you try these out. It might be worth a shot.
Hope that helps.
so i have the same problems described like most of you. I have no problems masturbating or getting an erection. But once penetration occurs, within 30 seconds my penis gets soft...done deal. I went to many specialists and no one could help. they stated that it's probably a "mental" issue and not physical. Confidence in pleasing a girl is an issue. I resorted to using the injection "papaverine" and it has helped. with the injection, I am able to have sexual intercourse for at least 30 minutes most of the time, not all the time. Because of this, I was able to build my confidence with each sexual encounter and within 6 months time, I was able to keep my erection without the injection maybe 3 out of 6 times. (intercouse probably lasted about 10-15 minutes) it's definitely an improvement from before.
Now I have been exercising more, eating healthier and taking these awesome nutritional supplements that my chiropractor recommended me.
He told me that I needed to cleanse and balance my body so that my organs/nerves will function at its optimum level along with getting chiropractic adjustments to stimulate nerves (some of which helps with sexual function). After taking these supplements for 2 months, I already feel a huge difference in my energy, mood, and my sex drive is through the roof. My hair, skin and nails look better too. I don't know what it is, but these supplements really helped. I am not totally cured, but I am able to maintain my erection 5 out of 6 times, I am definitely happy with that. I am not saying this will work for everyone, but it worked for me...and I thought I would share it with everyone.
the supplements that the doctor recommended me to take are: Go'yin, Nutrition Pure, and Liquid Cleanse (blend of traditional asian herbs and powerful anti-oxidants).
I do recommend you try these out. It might be worth a shot.
Hope that helps.
well i have also had the exact problem i found out its too much masturbation like the guy two post up says for a month (because it takes 28 days to break a habbit) dont masturbate no matter what whats happening is that when you masterbate the penis gets too use to how tight your hand is and you expect mentally that all things that give you pleasure like that would have to be that tight thing is they arent so theres a solution also condoms dont work for me i get no feeling out of it so if someone can let me know about the condom thing and if its just me or maybe others have had this happen
First of all, as some people wrote here before, try to masturbate not every day, at least few time per week. You problem is that penis is used to your hand, although sometimes it is the best way to increase your erection, but not in your case.
Secondly, maybe you are too nervous during the intercourse. Try to be more calm and self confident, do not concentrate on your pennis, because probably when you enter the vagina or you put on the condom you think"ohh no, here it comes again, I will loose my erection" try keep this thought away and concentrate more on feelings ;-)
Secondly, maybe you are too nervous during the intercourse. Try to be more calm and self confident, do not concentrate on your pennis, because probably when you enter the vagina or you put on the condom you think"ohh no, here it comes again, I will loose my erection" try keep this thought away and concentrate more on feelings ;-)
I also have had this problem maintaining an erection right before i have sex. I can get hard during a foreplay and what not but before i go to put it in i go soft sometimes. i dont know. and a lot of times when i do get it in, it just doesn't feel that stimulating and i go soft.
but the other thing is that a lot of times when i go to pee, i wind up having to sort of "milk" my penis to get the last bead of urine out. i cant just dangle it most of the time.
does anyone else have these same two problems? I am only 22 and really dont feel that i should be experiencing this.
but the other thing is that a lot of times when i go to pee, i wind up having to sort of "milk" my penis to get the last bead of urine out. i cant just dangle it most of the time.
does anyone else have these same two problems? I am only 22 and really dont feel that i should be experiencing this.
Had same problem. This is what worked for me.
Get some L-Arginine and ginko biloba from your local GNC or health/vitamin store.
Arginine is a precursor of nitric oxide, which increase muscle vascularity (commonly used in sports nutrition supplements for lifting weights see, N.O Products), penis is a muscle, i.e. helps with blood flow.
Ginko helps support healthy blood flow to peripheral appendages, ie hands, feet, toes, and penis.
Everything should be fixed with those, both are natural, and easily available, best of all, cheap.
Everything else is all in your head.
Try getting rough, and being dominate, throw her around a little, pull the hair, tell her you're going to rail her. and "punish" her for doing something, ie, making you turned on, being hot, make it something she can't control. Be a caveman basically. Doing so helps elevate testosterone levels, or at least the usage of existing test.
Go to a doctor and get your test levels measured, if low try DHEA (also available cheaply and at GNC, to increase test levels.
Get some L-Arginine and ginko biloba from your local GNC or health/vitamin store.
Arginine is a precursor of nitric oxide, which increase muscle vascularity (commonly used in sports nutrition supplements for lifting weights see, N.O Products), penis is a muscle, i.e. helps with blood flow.
Ginko helps support healthy blood flow to peripheral appendages, ie hands, feet, toes, and penis.
Everything should be fixed with those, both are natural, and easily available, best of all, cheap.
Everything else is all in your head.
Try getting rough, and being dominate, throw her around a little, pull the hair, tell her you're going to rail her. and "punish" her for doing something, ie, making you turned on, being hot, make it something she can't control. Be a caveman basically. Doing so helps elevate testosterone levels, or at least the usage of existing test.
Go to a doctor and get your test levels measured, if low try DHEA (also available cheaply and at GNC, to increase test levels.
hi sweet violet, it would be really sweet if you could share thwe remedy with us . Its really painful not to be able to complete the job when you know you can and you want to too....