HI may i please have your assistance. Highly appreciated
Like John said, please post some help. It will be really generous of you.
I need help bad. Starting to feel bad for myself. Like self esteem lack like of thing of not being able to finish up. It just happened to me just couple of times, but still I wanna fix it before it gets worse.
So please help
Thank you
I was really worried that I was having this problem. I'm a 31 years old married to the love of my life fora year, been dating since 2006. I have been diagnose with high blood pressure and pre diabetes, taken meds for pressure for 3 years and can't lower it. i have a lot of stress from my business too.
Never had this problem before, I used to master bate daily and have stop that now for about 2 years. I must admit that she's always been very demanding when it comes to sex, I've always tried to please her but lately the more I think "omg don't finish before her" the faster I start to lose my erection. Is so disappointing and embarrassing, makes me feel like a complete failure as a man, as a husband. She even cried the last time that happened and now thinks that I am no longer attracted to her, which is not the truth. I wasn't to have sex with her daily, but the more I think about it, the faster I lose my erection.
I really don't know what to do anymore, I woul try Viagra but my heart won't be able to Handel it, besides I don't want any more meds to be on the way.
Get your doctor or specialist to prescribe Alprostadil. A 20ug injection keeps me hard for about three hours. Even after climaxing my erection stays. Last night we had sex four times before I went soft. My wife loves it and so do I.
The tiny injection does not hurt at all.
Hi my name is abhi am male and i have the exact problem, by the way today i losed my virginity and it was really embarrassing, i suddenly losed my erection and coudnt continue, but so nice of her she supported me and that helped, i think everything with erection is to do with your MIND, but i would like to know what did you found in your reserch?
anyway am really happy that i can talk about this problem with you guys, such a relief.
This might be a bit late, but I still hope it helps someone out.A google search led me to this forum, as I've been suffering a similar sort of problem.I recently moved countries, and after 5 years of having girlfriends and sexual partners on a fairly regular basis, I have only had sex a few times, in this whole year.In the 3 occasions that I've had sex this year, I've suffered from the exact problem mentioned by so many of you. (I was extremely hard during foreplay and then only slightly erect during intercourse.)I am 23 year old male, and for my age, I think I've had a fairly active sexual life, having had sex with at least 15 girls. I say this to clarify that performance issues, or nervousness, have nothing to do with my problem.I find this sort of phenomena interesting, and I've graduated in applied psychology, so I trust myself to analyse it appropriately. Therefore, I find it ridiculous to suggest that we've masturbated so much that we know prefer our hand. Mmm I don't know what kind of sex some of you are having, but this really baffles me. As I've been masturbating very regularly this year ( and I have been in other periods of my life, in which I've encountered this problem) it would suggest that it does have something to do with it, as it does seem to be the common denominator in our different predicament.Thinking about it, I have the impression that I know what might be going on.There's got to be a reason for masturbating daily, and clearly it has something to do with having quite a lively sexual drive (not necessarily innate) so we find the need to masturbate (excessively?)I reckon that when we're about to have sex, being clearly turned on, we get over excited. Our lively sex drive (the same that drives us to masturbate daily) gets over excited, and we sort of (semi) ejaculate. I'm not saying we have a proper orgasm, or that we suffer from premature ejaculation, but -ejaculation- has two phases. Emission is the first one and, the second one, involves the thrusts and the actual semen. Is it not interesting that when we masturbate we maintain our erection, and that when we have a naked woman next us (and we're clearly more turned on) we lose it after a while? I think we maintain our erection (during masturbation) because our level of excitedness doesn't go over the top until we're actually physiologically ready to orgasm, and not only psychologically. Lately, although I have encountered this problem, Ive still managed to reach an orgasm (and so did she) but it did take us both quite a while. However, before, I would get freaked out, and Id start thinking that I had erectile dysfunction or something.. I can tell you that thinking something along those lines, while having sex, would definitely contribute to you losing your erection completely, so it's really important to not make an issue of it. It's possible to still enjoy sex, but depending on what goes through your head.With regards to solutions, I think that in the long term, masturbating less, will definitely sort it out (as long as you avoided turning it into an issue) On the short term, I reckon that cutting foreplay to the minimum would mean that, when moving on to intercourse, you will still be hard. Let me know what you guys think, or if it helps you in anyway. I'm really interested in sorting this thing out, not in being right.
same here just married off recently and same thing i seem to lose out erection as soon as i wear condom for intercourse but when i wake up the next morning i get a real hard on so , from couple of days i tried hard at night and lost and after a good night sleep i woke up like a lion on bed....hopefully u guys also can try it in the early morning time cuz thats the time u getting the tightest period our ur penis....best of luck
well if your masturbating daily it might actually be your problem, if you try and hold it in for a week you will do a lot better. then again if you dont you might want to get it checked out
I have have the smae problem but i get a erection from making out and stuff and then when i am about to have intercourse it goes away idk what it is. My ex u could have sex with no problem but with new girls this happens everytime and it is destroying my confidence
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I Am In Love With My Girlfriend, We Had Foreplay For About 3.5Hrs Before We Tried To Do Anything. The Moment We Got Naked, After Covering Both Of Our Selves I Lost My Erection... She Thought It Was Her Fault... I Felt Like A Loser... I Went To Work And Spoke To A Couple Co-Workers, They Said I Had Exhausted My Self And Psyched Myself At.... Maybe From Worrying About Her Getting Pregnant, Her Parents Finding Out, Or Something Else.... P.S. We're Young, But Old Enough... I Couldn't Believe It Happened To Me... It Had Happened Previously When I Was With A Women Of Ill Repute Basically, And When Went To Put It In I Lost It... She Got On Anyway Somehow While I Was Mostly Flacid And Rode Me.... For About 5mins.... Wasted Efforts... I Appreciate All The Different Stories Making Me Feel Like I'm Not Alone... Thanks For The Advice Everyone.. As For Those Who Posted Once And Did Not Post Back Any Info.. Y'all Can Go F**k Your Selves I Read The Whole Page... I Probably Won't Ever Check This Site Again