im 18 years old and ive been sexually active since i was 16 and i had noooooo problems having sex at all what so ever. in may i started to have slight discomfort but it was tolerable so i told my boyfriend about it and we cooled down on the sex. it has gotten worse and to the point were sex is extremely painful to describe it its like a ripping tearing burning feeling. we dont rush into sex and we wait until im natually lubricated as well as using lube to help but it doesnt help no matter what we do sex is unbearable. when i went to my gyno she shrugged it off and said i probably wasnt using enough lube but i am and its frustrating because its causing problems with our realationship and my self esteem. and the last 2 times we had sex we couldnt finish because the pain was so bad and i started light bleeding during sex and the next day. another thing that has been happening is ive been having this dark pinkish brown kinda jelly discharge but ONLY when i go to the bathroom i dont know if that has anything to do with the pain or not. and when i went to the gyno i did get tested so unless its a more extreme std which im really hoping it isnt i dont have an std. im just really confused with why this is happening pleaseee if you have any idea please pleasee help me!
If your doctor just shrugged it off they don't sound very helpful it should not be a painful experience during intercourse and the fact it is means there is sum thing goin on try going to another doctor see if they have a different opinion. I hope this helps nd you feel better soon
It's possible you've got irritation on the walls of the vagina, which has never had a chance to heal. Try going 14 days, no sex. After that start slow and use lots of lube, there's not such thing as too much. Also, make sure you are using one that is hypoallergenic (buy a high quality one).
Have you considered the possibility of a yeast infection? How about latex allergy? Take a break, then start ruling things out.
And don't wait until it hurts "too much". Stop having sex if it hurts AT ALL. If your man respects you he will not insist on sex when it hurts you. As a man, I personally lose interest in sex if my girl is in pain.