i'm so glad to know that this is normal, i was freaking out, thinking there was something wrong with me. it was not my first time, but it was my first time with this girl. i got hard a couple of times but it didn't last enough so we could go all the way. i felt so embarassed, and then i couldn't get hard enough to do it right, we did everything but nothing was working... i guess next time i'll try not to freak out and think so much about it, i don't know.
For me I'd always wanted to do straight to the point with my girlfriend and have sex to show her i care and I'm old enough to have a good time, so stupidly i guess without and experience of anything before... thats what i did. Unlike me she wasnt a virgin and so she knew what she was doing a what to expect. this was my first worry.. that i wouldnt live up to expectations. 2nd worry was i wouldnt last very long, but it turns out i was completely the opposite and couldnt get it hard in the first place. i knew how nervous i really waas when i passed her the condom and my hand was shaking so much i dropped it :L
anyway after about 10mins we finally managed to get going. it was a great experience, but i still wasnt hard. i was just worried that i didnt manage to to please her and if i was going to be like this for the rest of my life.
when she asked if i was okay i explained why i was a bit troubled about what had just happened, but as she is fantastic she told me not to worry and there is always tomorrow:-) ... wish me luck.
i just found it slighty strage, how i can just be sat in school and get a stiff, but when this girl who has been the only girl for me for the last 3 years and i finally get going... i dont seem to work. but if anythink the unlike movie experience has made our relationship better :)
Omg same thing happened to me an hour ago we were going fine and i was playing with her boobs.... full on boner. asked if she wanted to had sex she was like yes but im nervous i was like uhh me too, as i was shaking. i pull her pants off whip it out and procede put put the condome on... and buh bye. so i was like f**k so i tried "waking" it up and got it then i was like half and inch away and then its starts to get soft. i was like fml and i put it right on it and it bends away and im like f**k we try this for like 30 mins then just give up wasting a whole condom
holy sh*t i am so glad i found this thread. This just happened to me like two hours ago. I jerk off alot to porn and its very easy and i feel like i easily get a boner more than i should. I was with a new girl who i had fooled around with once but nothing to serious. I am a virgin but i told her i wasnt because she had been with a few guys and i didnt want to seem unexperienced. we were kissing and stuff for a while and i had a semii and then right when we were about to do it..GONE. Dont know what the hell happened nothing she or i did helped at all. I knew i was a little nervous but i guess maybe more than i thought. Even now, she is gone and i cant even get it up myself. Also i just finished 3 days of exams so i could be more stressed than i realized. Glad to see other guys having the same problem because i felt like a complete frikkin id**t, even tho she seemed surprisingly ok with it. Actually thought i was gay for a sec lol. she is gunna give me a 2nd go so im not jerking off before that and will just try not to think about it too much.