I am 25 years old and I have sex 5 years already. I have never come when I have sexual intercourse, but it feels great anyway. Anyway, yesterday I was home alone and I started to play with myself. I started just touching my vulva, but I finished fingering myself. I found it so great, and I come first time in my life, so I wonder what is wrong with me.
There is nothing wrong with you; there is not every woman that could come with usual vaginal penetrating. According to embryological developing of human’s sexual organs, I have to tell you girl’s clitoris is the same as penis. There are placed all nerves and feelings of sexual satisfying, beside vulva has some of those too. Vagina does not contain nerves, which could make you come, without stimulating G-spot and your clitoris. This does not make you strange, it is just you did not get know your body. When you search enough to find out what you like, you will be able to give instructions to your man. He could do exactly what you done with fingering yourself for the first time. It will be even better because it is always better when someone else is fingering you. I could recommend you to continue fingering yourself, and say it to your boyfriend, he could try to make it too.
OH MY GOD... masterbating is not something to be ashmed of it is perfically normal. In fact the avarage american master bates at least 1 time a day. So there is nothing wrong with you. You should be gald :). So i hope that you neva feel like that ever again cause it is perfectly normal. AND P>s IF you have any more questions my yahoo id is: mikeyboy47 and my email is: m i k e y b o y 4 7 @ y a h o o . c o m ( without spaces) AND goodluck and i am happy for you!!!!!!!
i do it all d time and my husband does it to me...it feels so good.
but my partner want me to finish while he is inside me without playing with my clit. =(... am i normal? coz i cant finish by only sexual intrcourse. pls i need help.
Of course you are normal. He is being unrealistic. He should relish your pleasure and help you get it in whatever way works for you.
If he wants you to have a vaginal orgasm, he's the one who needs to figure out how to give you one.
thank you (njoynlife) for ur reply..
but the problem is he tried alot of positions but still i cant finish by only making love.. he has to play with my clit b4 i finish.. i dont wanna lose my partner =( ... i love him so much.. he wants me to ask some doctors if theres a problem with me. why i cant finish in a normal way. really im very mad with my self..
but the problem is he tried alot of positions but still i cant finish by only making love.. he has to play with my clit b4 i finish.. i dont wanna lose my partner =( ... i love him so much.. he wants me to ask some doctors if theres a problem with me. why i cant finish in a normal way. really im very mad with my self..
try a different position like doogie style and ask him to use his hands to stimulate ur clit while he is inside u i hope this helps
ladybug28 wrote:
I really do not feel there is anything abnormal about you. My wife could never come from vaginal stimulation so I/we always gave her clit a workout along with penetration. from what I've read on the forum over the past several years that is not unusual. Many women get little or nothing from vaginal penetration except that it feels good to have your partner inside you.
In later years we learned about the elusive "G spot" but my wife was not too receptive to me looking for it or working on it.
However, many girls on this forum seem to enjoy it a lot so it's probably worth looking into.
njoynlife wrote:
Of course you are normal. He is being unrealistic. He should relish your pleasure and help you get it in whatever way works for you.
If he wants you to have a vaginal orgasm, he's the one who needs to figure out how to give you one.
thank you (njoynlife) for ur reply..
but the problem is he tried alot of positions but still i cant finish by only making love.. he has to play with my clit b4 i finish.. i dont wanna lose my partner =( ... i love him so much.. he wants me to ask some doctors if theres a problem with me. why i cant finish in a normal way. really im very mad with my self..
I really do not feel there is anything abnormal about you. My wife could never come from vaginal stimulation so I/we always gave her clit a workout along with penetration. from what I've read on the forum over the past several years that is not unusual. Many women get little or nothing from vaginal penetration except that it feels good to have your partner inside you.
In later years we learned about the elusive "G spot" but my wife was not too receptive to me looking for it or working on it.
However, many girls on this forum seem to enjoy it a lot so it's probably worth looking into.
You are 25 years old. Why you are not married to to a man.Are you not interested in marriage.Please inform your parents that you want to marry and get children.Do not touch your vagina often.
you absolute, I don't know what ti say, keep the BS to yourself.
A pretty high percentage of women don't come via intercourse alone. It's quite normal to need some stimulation besides the intercourse to come to a climax even if both of you are doing things right. Just plan to include some other stimulation in your activities - either by yourself or by your partner.