for ahead of time thx! hi i'm just concernced about my gfs health and the last thing i want for her is to get hert, lastnight i talked her into sitting down slowly onto a thing she found around the house to slide into her anus she said it was about 8 in long and wasn't TOO wide, she did have a lil bit of lube ( conditioner ) and shes 14 years old and is kinda new to anal " maybe 7th time but first time doing something this deep, when she was done she said she loved it but she decribed a goo like substance left on her " toy " with a lil bit of blood in it and she said her stomach was herting a lil bit but nothing to bad ( upper left stomach ) but the next morning she said it hurt much worse as in brought her to tears and the pain was on n off and a day later now she feels fine, is she going to b alright??? plz write back soon thx!!!
For starters what in the hell is a 14 year old doing having sex , let alone sticking something from around the house up her ass? What kind of boyfriend are you to be encouraging this?
the best thing u can do is tell her to clean every night her anus and to wonder if the thing she put inside may have anything that can tear up her ass.. than talk to sb who you trust and know about these things.
If she's 14, she's too young to be having sex let alone sticking random things from around the house up her ass.
It is likely whatever it was was too big or may have torn something inside. I think it should heal and be fine if she's no longer having any pain or any other symptoms. Perhaps have your girlfriend talk to her doctor and/or the school nurse. Remember that the school nurse (if you go to him/her) will most likely not call your girlfriend's parents unless there is something wrong. If you do go to someone, be completely honest (don't try to hide anything).
It is likely whatever it was was too big or may have torn something inside. I think it should heal and be fine if she's no longer having any pain or any other symptoms. Perhaps have your girlfriend talk to her doctor and/or the school nurse. Remember that the school nurse (if you go to him/her) will most likely not call your girlfriend's parents unless there is something wrong. If you do go to someone, be completely honest (don't try to hide anything).
Whoa! Anal sex at 14...what the hell? If you are concerned about her health, I would suggest you advise her to keep all things out of her ass, including you!
DONT USE HOUSEHOLD ITEMS. DONT USE CONDITIONER AS LUBE. USE LUBE FOR ANAL SEX. MAKE SURE SHE HAS A GYN, OR ACCESS TO A PLANNED PARENTHOOD IF HER PARENTS DO NOT THINK SEX IS APROPRAITE FOR YOU TWO.
USE FINGERS.
USE ANAL SEX TOYS WITH A FLARED END- BUT IF YOU ARE JUST A TEENY BOPPER YOU DONT HAVE ACCESS TO THAT.
IF YOU REALLY WANT TO DIVE INTO EXPLORING EACHOTHERS ASSES, GO TO THE GROCERY STORE OR DRUG STORE, BUY SOME LUBE FOR ANAL SEX,
ALONG WITH SOME CONDOMS.
WEAR A CONDOM IF SHE LETS YOU GO INSIDE HER. USE LOTS OF LUBE. LOTS, AND LOTS, GO VERY SLOW, AND STOP IF SHE SAYS IT HURTS.
AND ITS ONLY FAIR IF YOU EXPLORE HER ANUS, LET HER EXPLORE YOURS AND BE COMFORTABLE WITH IT, IFYOURE NOT, YOU PROBABLY SHOULDNT BE TRYING TO HAVE ANAL SEX, AND JUST STICK TO MASTURBATING, ORAL SEX,AND GOOD OL VAGINAL PENETRATION.
USE FINGERS.
USE ANAL SEX TOYS WITH A FLARED END- BUT IF YOU ARE JUST A TEENY BOPPER YOU DONT HAVE ACCESS TO THAT.
IF YOU REALLY WANT TO DIVE INTO EXPLORING EACHOTHERS ASSES, GO TO THE GROCERY STORE OR DRUG STORE, BUY SOME LUBE FOR ANAL SEX,
ALONG WITH SOME CONDOMS.
WEAR A CONDOM IF SHE LETS YOU GO INSIDE HER. USE LOTS OF LUBE. LOTS, AND LOTS, GO VERY SLOW, AND STOP IF SHE SAYS IT HURTS.
AND ITS ONLY FAIR IF YOU EXPLORE HER ANUS, LET HER EXPLORE YOURS AND BE COMFORTABLE WITH IT, IFYOURE NOT, YOU PROBABLY SHOULDNT BE TRYING TO HAVE ANAL SEX, AND JUST STICK TO MASTURBATING, ORAL SEX,AND GOOD OL VAGINAL PENETRATION.
first off how old are you? (im guessing same age)
second: tell her to not stick sh*t up her ass, it can really screw up how she goes to the washroom and even cause a blockage.
second: tell her to not stick sh*t up her ass, it can really screw up how she goes to the washroom and even cause a blockage.
Good job everyone who just gave the kid c**p for asking for help... at least he cares enough... not saying that i encourage it but your not going to change their minds... dont gripe at someone asking for help... thats what causes them to go without any help cause they are afraid of people like you criticizing them. Kid clearly whatever was inserted wasnt meant for anal insertion... my gf and i had something similar happen ... im not a doctor but ours told us
not do any type of anal for at a minimum of 2 weeks its like a scab... if you keep picking at it/ irritating it it will cause a problem... ended up fine you just need to not bother it for a while.. and maybe look into getting a sex toy made for anal play instead of a random object in the house... her health is more important... take your time and be careful you have to be easy with anal or this will happen again