You try different ways until you find what does it for you.
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hmm yes it is hard the first time and it hurts too.
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what you are doing is fine keep going in further gradually. i think its easier to get anything in if you're lying in the missionary position. and trying using a set of vibrators. start with small and then use larger ones when you're more comfortable. you can break your 'cherry' by yourself sometimes and it's the cherry that causes pain during sex usually.
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maybe if you do it yourself then it won't hurt as much with your bf.
How old are you?
Where are you from?
Are you a virgin?
Is hymen retention important to you?
Are there any religious/cultural implications?
Maddy,
At her age it is perfectly normal to explore her own body. I would advise against sexual activity with another person at her age, but we as individuals grow into our bodies at different rates. It is perfectly normal to enjoy masturbation, for both males and females. She didn't say she did it to get ready for boys, she said she did it because she enjoyed it. I started at around that age and it was still a few years before I had any type of sexual contact with anyone, as is with most people. We shouldn't discourage kids from exploring their own bodies. If parents were more open with there children about such things and provided more in-home sexual education we would see the number of teen pregnancies plummet.
im doing it right now
The key is to get yourself really wet and relaxed. Try and masturbate when you know you won't be disturbed (when your parents aren't home) so you can really relax and take as long as you want. First empty your bladder and put a towel on your bed. Take off your clothes and rub yourself all over your body, your breasts and nipples etc. You might also want to watch some porn to help yourself get really turned on.when you feel your p***y is really wet and turned on, start rubbing your clit and spread open you legs. After about 5 mins of touching your clit, slowly slide 2 fingers inside your vagina and keep rubbing your clit with the other hand. You should move your fingers in and out of your p***y with your palm pointing up towards the ceiling. After about 5 or 10 mins of fingering yourself and rubbing you clit at same time, you may feel like you need to pee. When ou feel this, push out with your vagina muscles like you are peeing (really important that you keep rubbing your clit and fingering your p***y whilst you do this) then should hopefully squirt and a liquid will come out of your p***y. You will have the most Intense orgasm and will cum so hard!!!