I was not a virgin when me and my bf had sex for the first time but ever since him and I started having sex I've been in pain we started off using codoms and stopped due to personal reasons but now it's been days and it hurts when I pee i was spotting blood my whole area feels like its in pain.. Someone please help I keep researching before I go to my doc and only thing I've come up with is a uti
Hi, a lot of the couples did experience problem like this at least once throughout their relationship. I see you said that it was not your first time having sex, that is why you should talk openly with your boyfriend about sex. You need to explain him that foreplay is important and that he should not rush into penetration when you have an intercourse. You both need to be relaxed first because i think you have just irritated the skin due to the fact that there was not enough "lube" for penetration. In future, let foreplay last a little longer or use a lubricant so you dont irritate the skin again.