Did he break up with you? I got my chlamydia from my ex. Over 5 months ago I just had sex with my new bf after 3 months of dating and gave him chlamydia. I did not know I had it. My current bf (well now ex) told me I gave him chlamydia. I was in disbelief. I got tested and it was true I had it. So yes I was dumped for that. I was wondering if you or anyone else went through this. I feel horrible. I do not sleep around. I made the mistake in putting trust in my ex bf and having unprotected sex. Now I lost an amazing guy, but I guess it's for the better. If he really cared and trusted me, he would look past this and see it was an unfortunate accident.
Is this true. ...? How can a Virginia get clamedia
Sex is not the only way of getting it because its a bacteria and you can get it wiping wrong or even toilet seat. My wife had it and I didn't when she was pregnant she swore it was me.
How do you find out who gave it to u ?
Where did you find that info from about toilet seat and wiping wrong way
What ended up happening? Going through the same thing..
oh sorry to hear that this..
My husband of 20 years just came back positive for Chlamydia. I have absolutely no doubt in my mind that he is faithful, as am I. He was tested at the same time as seeing the doctor about a really bad UTI. I googled if UTI's produce false positives for Chlamydia, and in a study 47% of the UTI samples came back false positive. I have told him to get retested after he finishes his antibiotics for the UTI, and see the results then. Worth considering if you know your partner has faithful.
Just wanted to update this - I was recently tested negative for Chlamydia, and on second testing my husband was also tested as negative. The doctor has no explanation for my husband first positive test result. My husband had a UTI at the time, and a stomach ulcer. Perhaps there was a link, resulting in a false positive? Very frustrating and caused a lot of unnecessary anxiety in our marriage.
My boyfriend and I has been together for one year, and recently I thought I got a UTI and yeast infection so I went to go get checked. They took my urine culture and found out that I had chlamydia. Right off the batt I know I got it off from my boyfriend because he's my first boyfriend and I have never slept with anyone else. Even so, the thought of him cheating on me didn't come across my mind. I believed he isn't that type of person and he is faithful, so I just assumed that he got it from his ex and I was just lucky for some reason and didn't catch it until now, either that or my symptoms never showed up until recently. Any who, I've talked to him about all this and he assured me that he didn't sleep with anyone but me, but after talking to couple of my friends I started to suspect something was off. I ended up checking his phone and found messages of a girl he was talking to, and another convo with his friend admitting that he's cheated and got chlamydia from her. I was devastated, still am because it only happened just about a week ago. I never thought this would've happen to me, I don't know what I've done to deserve this when I've been nothing but good and loyal to him. I'm upset that he didn't show any signs of care or apologized for getting me infected when he knew he was at fault. It's just been extremely painful for me to go through this on my own while learning that someone you loved so dearly went behind my back and did this. I'm still in the process of healing but I do want people to be cautious that...majority of the time if you do catch an STD and you have a gut feeling that something is wrong in your relationship, if you ever doubt for one sec... then you should double check again. Even if your partner swear on their life that they are faithful, you should always protect yourself and your body first.
Yes I agree
My boyfriend cheated on me and all of a sudden I have it but he got tested and didn't have it. I've been tested before he cheated on me but it came back negative as well. I went to my doctor and they said I have it but I'm confused. Still.
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I am a 17 year old virgin and met a girl recently who i really liked. We wanted to start a sexual relationship but she didn't believe I was a virgin so we went to the clinic together to get tested for all STD's. And my test came back positive for chlamydia I was shocked and horrified!! Anyway after speaking to the "professional's" and explain how I was a virgin and never even been involved in a sexual act they told me the ONLY other way I could have caught it is through my mum when I was born. I then had a very awkward conversation with my parents and asked if they ever had it and they both said no and went and got tested as they got scared. And they both got the all clear.... so chlamydia might be most commonly spread through sexual intercourse but it's 100% not the only way you can catch it. So please stop listening to this medieval BS!!!! Stop ending relationships because of this. Unless they've given you a reason not to trust them then you need to trust the person you're with. I can't even imagine how many faithful relationships have been ruined by this. We are always discovering new information about everything all the time. Yet this 'fact' is set in stone and it's so intrue it's unbelievable. I hope you people who have had this ruin your life's can get back on track.
I am a 17 year old virgin and met a girl recently who i really liked. We wanted to start a sexual relationship but she didn't believe I was a virgin so we went to the clinic together to get tested for all STD's. And my test came back positive for chlamydia I was shocked and horrified!! Anyway after speaking to the "professional's" and explain how I was a virgin and never even been involved in a sexual act they told me the ONLY other way I could have caught it is through my mum when I was born. I then had a very awkward conversation with my parents and asked if they ever had it and they both said no and went and got tested as they got scared. And they both got the all clear.... so chlamydia might be most commonly spread through sexual intercourse but it's 100% not the only way you can catch it. So please stop listening to this medieval BS!!!! Stop ending relationships because of this. Unless they've given you a reason not to trust them then you need to trust the person you're with. I can't even imagine how many faithful relationships have been ruined by this. We are always discovering new information about everything all the time. Yet this 'fact' is set in stone and it's so intrue it's unbelievable. I hope you people who have had this ruin your life's can get back on track.
What bc because I got it out of no where too after I started a certain pill?
I'm a girl and just got told I have chlamydia, even though I'm in a faithful relationship of my new husband for atleast 4 years! I 100% know we both did not cheat on each other. So it's so frustrating not understanding how to prevent something I shouldn't have got in the first place!