I would like to sneak my boyfriend over. Let me give you some information right off the bat.
Yes I have read this post, the replies, the outcome, and I am fully aware of the possible outcomes and consequences. I am 15. My boyfriend and I are both virgins and are waiting until marriage.
Please do not lecture me on how deceitful doing so would be, and anything else you might add that I already know. I do know about STI's, STD's, HIV, all of it and contraceptives. I have educated myself and already learned at school.
Now, I want to sneak my boyfriend over. There would be no problem with him coming over except for (the obvious of course) and the fact that he lives an hour away. There are no complications with him sneaking in. The only problem for us would be transportation. He would have to take the bus because he could not walk or bike that far safely. (Please do not tell me how unsafe it already is, I am fully aware). Now, the problem with the transportation is that we live an hour away from each other, and there are no bus routes available at the times we would need them to be.
Are there any ways you guys know about that may help me with this transportation dilemma?
No, I can't give him a ride, he can't get a ride, and he is not going to drive over here. Too risky. And Dangerous.
You are such a confused and hormonal child... grow up and stop using sex as another activity to spend with a guy, go to the movies, go to the park, TALK and learn about each other damnit. I was with a guy for 2 years and sure, we had sex after about 10 months but our parents both knew we were dating, he was the flowers and chocolates type that loved and supported me and everything seemed really perfect and we didn't do it because we felt we HAD to, but that doesn't change the fact that when you fool around in high school that relationship is extremely different from an adult one or even a relationship when you're 17 or 18. I was 15 when we started dating and after we broke up we were both devastated and I couldn't move on for months and months. THATS how you know a relationship wasn't just some fling. If you don't feel those real, non hormone induced emotions for that person then you have no buisness having sex with them. You're just going to end up pregnant and ruin every opportunity you have at a career or a job outside flipping burgers. I'm currently in a relationship and we're f*****g grown now and we don't put such slutty dependence on sex like you seem to do
Dear Keeran,
Just call me MK as a nickname. I'm reading all these comments on this page. I'm happy for you that you were pregnant. But, you were too young. And because you were not listening to the people around you, shows you are not responsible. You are also not ready to take care of a baby. I am also 14, and my boyfriend is 15. We want sex too. But we both know it isn't healthy at our age. It can ruin our reputation at school, effect our education plans, and ruin our trust with our families. What you have done was not very smart. People are easy to judge. And i don't like the idea of being called a s***, i don't think you would like that either. Stop acting like this. BTW, Good luck with your child.