hey girls. and boys. boys mostly I think because I believe that you can help me. my boyfriend is not happy. not with me, he is not happy generally and he doesn't want to talk about it. I don't think that there is something that bothers him, at all. I just think that he has a problem with oxytocin levels and that we together need to do something about it, to increase it, if you know what I mean. I don't know how. but I want to do that to help him. and to help me. how to Increase oxytocin in men and boost your "happy hormone"? any advice?
Hi. Your boyfriend is just going through some bad phase I think. It is not your fault at all, it is a phase, but sure that you can help him get over this phase as well. Anyway, here is what you can do - show an intimacy to your boyfriend. Show interest in him, eye contact is important and touch as well. Also, tell some good things to him, for example, tell him why you admire to him, what is something that you appreciate in his behaviour the most. Give your partner a kiss every day, up to 10 seconds. This will improve his oxytocin. Spread a love :)
Hi! According to some researchers, the oxytocin levels increase and remain high in the early days of romantic love. That means that those levels rise further not only after sex, but also if the members of a couple simply are in close proximity to one another. I think that everything about increase oxytocin is clear. It is all about the game of love. To be happy and to feel good, a guy must be loved by his lady. If you think that you are giving him enough of love, you should tell him this and you should open all cards in your relationship. Maybe there is something else that bothers him...
It is not your fault so you really should not feel any type of guilt - I am saying this because according to your posts, you are feeling guilty because you can't give him what he wants. The only truth is that if he can't help himself, I don't know what you can do to help him. You are doing everything right I suppose, you are there for him, you love him, you respect him and you don't want him to have bad thoughts any single day, especially when it comes to your relationship. Talk is always a good idea, but like someone already told you, I think that there is something else that bothers him.