I have no problem with my husband masturbating, but I do have a problem with him looking at other women to do it. Point blank it breaks my heart that he does it. I am very sexual and love to have sex with him..I am also attractive with a great body. I don't understand why he feels the need to do this. If he ever wants sex all he has to do is let me know and I am there, and not because it is my job, but because I want it to. Why can't he just masturbate to me? I love to masturbate in front of him, so why can't he get his release then. I am also totally turned on by the thought of going down on him, but i don't do it often because after I finish him off he says his penis is "broken"(we are only 26) meaning that he can no longer get it back up in order to take care of me, and when I asked him to take care of me in another way he says he doesn't want to cause he can no longer get in the mood to do it. The same thing goes for when we have sex, once he gets his nut, if I didn't finish that is it for me for the WHOLE day. I am the one that is sexually frustrated here, and he still feels the need to look at porn. I spoke with him about it, and he pretty much says he doesn't care if it hurts me he is going to continue to do it. I love how we are always expected to bend over backwards and throw all of our pain out of the window to please men. My heart is totally broken right now.
He needs an attitude adjustment.
Your husband is a douche bag if I had this access to my wife anytime I wanted it I would be on her every night. In my marriage it's the exact opposite I turn the porn because my wife doesn't want sex as much as I want. We have openly discussed this issue and she knows I do it, she may not like it but she likes it better than the alternative of cheating. Especially considering that she really let herself go. After 2 kids she is easily 90 lbs heavier and she never exercises. Me I'm in our home gym 4-5times a week.
all I heard in ther was .. He is pleasing himself, no pressure. full stop. that says it all. selfish selfish
Lol, it just means he's got a full load and is trying to blow one off. He probably couldn't sleep. Guys masturbate, it's a natural part of life it doesn't mean he doesn't love you. you should have walked in there and asked if you could help him and give him a bj. Take him by surprise. Guys watch porn because it's exciting, it's something that they don't get in real life, a short fantasy. Play along, ten years is a long time so you need to keep things new you know.
I agree with this too
I agree with you.I just caught my husband do the same and Iv been with him 16 years.This hurts so bad.
Hi, Am desiree i think we are almost the same,begin married for 4years,thoughout last year we did not have sex he always have one thing or another,just today i caught him watching porn with the computer,he does not even have the balls to agree i caught him,men are just so frustrating,i dont know if i should just walk away with my daughter because it hurts to live like this,help please.