Hi hon! No its over, I feel for you honey, I feel sad but on the other hand your parents were the ones that should have really made the decision, because even though it would have been you having the baby, more often then not it is the parents who end up taking "care" because teenagers can't make the same monies etc.
I suppose things have changed a bit for you heh? With regards too all the relationships - your boyfriend, your parents etc. But it will pass, It has been a hec of a roller coaster for you and your BF but also your parents too.
Just remember to be on protection when you decide too do it again OK? As I'm sure your like "DUH!!!!!" :-D XD ;-) 8-| Anyway honey I appreciate you telling me what happened. And I'm glad I could help a little bit anyway. Take care hon!!!
I suppose things have changed a bit for you heh? With regards too all the relationships - your boyfriend, your parents etc. But it will pass, It has been a hec of a roller coaster for you and your BF but also your parents too.
Just remember to be on protection when you decide too do it again OK? As I'm sure your like "DUH!!!!!" :-D XD ;-) 8-| Anyway honey I appreciate you telling me what happened. And I'm glad I could help a little bit anyway. Take care hon!!!
I think that what your mom said is a very important thing--having a baby doesn't make you a mother. When you're older and in a better position to support yourself and be independent, then that's a good time to have a baby. This is very common and I want you to know that it's not abnormal or anything to get an abortion and that feeling sad or regret after is common. But one day you will be ready and at that point you will be able to get pregnant and provide great support for your child. How do you feel now? How are you doing?
Omg, dont worry . I was in the same situation not too long ago . I was sixteen when i told my parents i was pregnant . They too are VERY religious, and i couldnt help be terrified . I hid my pregnancy till i was 4 months . I tried to get rid of it, but i found out too late and couldnt do any home abortions . My boyfriend and i were scared, we didnt tell anyone . But once i was brave enough i told my mom, it was very tough on her, she cried the whole day . Part of it was disappointment but most of it was sorrow, she was scared for me and the baby .We both sat down and told my dad, he reacted the same . They were both disapointed, but because they loved me, they helped me, and supported me . And let me tell you .. once my baby came they couldnt get enough of him ! Ehhe he brought joy to us all, and my boyfriend is still in the picture, we're both very happy that we had our son now(: I kno that story was long and boring but i just want to let u kno, that your parents love you and theyll support you in whatever u decide to do . And bcuz theyre religious, makes it even better . A good religious pair of parents have great love for their kids(: