i am a 14 years old girl and broke my hymen 15 days ago through fingering and even after 15 days i am experiencing lower tummy pain..whats the reason. i heard from a friend that hymen breakage cannot cause pain for this long i cant telll my parents they will screw me so i cant even go to a doctor.. please help me out.. i am really worried can this pain be bcz of some other reasons ? what could they be ? and what should i doo now..? will i get my period on time ? need help please
Hi I'm really sorry to hear this. Your period shouldn't be affected. And it would be a good idea to go to the doctor. You don't need to tell your parents about that. At your age you should be able to go into the consulting room by yourself, and you can just tell your parents you have a sore tummy. It may also be nothing to do with the hymen breaking. That night be a coincidence. All the best and I hope you feel well soon.
ya i knw i need to go to a doctor but i cnt...m living in india..and here evrythng is different
here in such cases police is involved..so i cant go without my mom
here in such cases police is involved..so i cant go without my mom
I understand that Indian culture is vastly different from US or UK, but across India it seems there are different regimes.
Would you explain exactly what you mean by "i am experiencing lower tummy pain"?
Which part exactly hurts, and what sort of pain is it?
Is it the same pain in the same place you experienced when you broke your hymen?
Did you bleed when your hymen broke?
Was this your first time fingering?
It may be that you have a Urinary Tract Infection, which is quite common. In which case, drink lots and lots of clean water. Do you have any other symptoms?
Would you also explain the cultural and religious significance of your problem in a bit more detail so we can help. Why do the police get involved
Is masturbation the problem? or the broken hymen only?
Sorry for all the questions, but if you want help without a doctor, then we need all the information a doctor would need. I am not a doctor, but will try and give some help if I can. You can talk in private if necessary.
yea i do wanna talk privately
i sent you a private mesage
waiting for an early reply
i sent you a private mesage
waiting for an early reply
did u get my private messagee?
Yes. And I will reply