Hello. I'm a 23 year old female who has never reached orgasm. I'm sexually active more then 4 years now but I think there is something wrong with me. I can make myself orgasm only by crossing my legs and applying vibrator stimulation.
I have start with this vibrator practice even before I had my first sex and I think it is the problem. I have somehow learned to orgasm using it and it interfere with my normal sexual orgasms. Oral stimulation from men never seems to make me orgasm; neither does
stimulation from their touch. Please tell me that there is nothing wrong with me and that I will overcome this problem. Help!
First I want to tell you that this is very common problem and that you are definitely not alone in all this. In most cases, this happens to boys because they start masturbating as very young and later- they develop problems with premature ejaculation. You see, I don’t know do you know fact that the part of your brain responsible for orgasm is the same that learns how to ride a bicycle. Brain easily gets used on things and it takes a lot of time to teach it a different thing. But believe me- it is possible. You must know that you should never put vibrator directly on your clitoris because that causes a condition called "sensory acclimation" and can make your clitoris go numb. My suggestion is- stop using vibrator and commit your self to normal sexual intercourse and orgasm during normal sexual intercourse. After some time- it will happen.
Im 23 and I can't climax with a partner, only when my legs are crossed while useing a vibrater. I think something is wrong with me, I thought I was the only one with this problem. What can I do? My boyfriend thinks thats it's his fault, he tries very hard to please me. Sex is good but I never reach that point. I heard of women gettin a shot down there, that helps you climax easier, but I don't know alot about it. :-( ?