I am 14, and this is kind of embaressing so bare with me. Anyway since i was like 7 i have been masterbating, just rubbing myself on stuff and achieving orgasm, well one day i came upon my back massager which i used all the time like everday for a year. When i heard of fingering yourself i tried and felt absolutly nothing. So a site told me i should quit the back massager for a while to gain more feeling in my vagina. Its been a week and i still dont feel anything when i finger myself i looked for the G-spot combined it with porn and candlights but nothing, i dont want to go back to the vibrator.
Your just used to something better than just your hand.
Once you find something really good, its hard to go back to the old methods. Just try not to masterbate at all, for a looong time, then see how things go.
Once you find something really good, its hard to go back to the old methods. Just try not to masterbate at all, for a looong time, then see how things go.
Most women do not orgasm simply by fingering their vagina; they also need clitoral stimulation. You can try a combination of both fingers and vibrator where your fingers are in your vagina and vibrator is on your clitoris. Or you can use just fingers. Just make sure to stimulate your clitoris.
I tried a my parents back massager but I can't orgasm I'm 14 also I've just started masturbating but i ve always had a curiosity with sex I don't have any orgasms with my hands and fingers either.