Being sexually abused has destroyed so many innocent kids and you have the nerve to say you would prefer that to being circumcised.
Maybe your the one that needs to grow up you self-centered goof.
My two kids masterbation together boy 8 girl 9 , I let them do it together as they seem to enjoy it and don't feel seeing each other nude is wrong.they do bath together and sleep nude in same bed sometimes. My 9 year old is starting to get buds and a few public hairs.
Hi James,
This is my first time reading this and all of the reponses. I wonder how your kids are doing now and the steps you've taken on this issue. I think you've done a marvelous job at initially handling it, however open is not suitable for anyone, especially children. It has similar if not worse effects on the brains frontal lobe, which helps to build reasoning within children to be more responsible adults. Porn also teaches people to objectify other people and addiction is possible. You seem to treat your children with a great amount of respect and asking them to not watch porn is a boundary that can be made and monitored through companies like covanent eye that will send you alerts on any device it is placed on. Its about $9 a month but if you are unable to pay for it, the service can be provided for free. Sexuality is a difficult thing to guide, but as long as your children have time to grow every thing will be ok. I hope this helps.
Thanks,
Tabitha
James, we would enjoy an update. Has things progressed between your two children? Have you become more open yourself?
Well. I agree with most of your rules. I wouldn't let them watch porn. But I also wouldn't set a line. So long as it's consensual I wouldn't care if they had oral sex. It's literally educational. And teach them both about safe sex and birth control for your daughter. If they both agree, they may learn they love each other's mouths on their privates more than they love porn.